What are some nicer ways i can break up with my boyfriend with?

ok my boyfriend and i were together for a year and five months, and then we broke up for about a month and i think i made a mistake getting back together with him. i thought i still loved him but i dont. i actually cant stand him. hes not a very good boyfriend. but i want to break up with him really bad, i just dont know how. any ideas?What are some nicer ways i can break up with my boyfriend with?
Invest in your love and to be happy.


Happiness doesn't depend on any external conditions, it is governed by our mental attitude. When you make a commitment to a relationship, you invest your attention and energy in it more profoundly because you now experience ownership of that relationship.What are some nicer ways i can break up with my boyfriend with?
You can't stand the guy, and yet you want to be sensitive to him in the end. That is very kind of you.





First of all, I hope your sensitivity toward the situation will mean that you talk with him in person.





Personally, I think the most effective and kind way is to start out telling him what you appreciate about him and/or your relationship. There were things that brought you together鈥搕wice. Then move on to the ';but...'; You can tell him that you both need different things. (Never criticize or blame...you did this, and I hate that you do that...you're the reason I'm leaving.) It might be painful enough to be rejected, especially if he feels love for you. Try to state every negative you have in your mind as a positive.





Instead of, ';I can't take the way you are doggin around anymore. I have to leave...';


Say, ';I really need a man I can depend on, who will remain faithful and committed to me.';





State what you need, what you think you deserve and the fact that your needs are different from his, using more ';I'; statements than ';you'; statements. It is okay to tell him how you feel as long as you stray away from blame, which just hurts the other person and creates more room for argument.





Good luck and I hope this helps.
Just be honest and tell him your looking for other things in a guy and you think you made a mistake in getting back together. Tell him all the things you do like about him and tell him you need more than that and you don't feel he is up to the job. Clean break go into isolation surround yourself with other friends.


Resurface when your over it. Easy.
The truth. Tell him face to face and give your reasons. Give him a chance to express himself as well. No parting gifts. No empty promises. Tell him something along these lines: ';When I got back together with you I thought I was still in love with you, but I was wrong. I know I've mucked you around, but I don't want to lead you on any longer. This is how I feel. I'm sorry that you aren't the one. Is there anything you would like to say?... Goodbye.';
Now that its the second time, i think you should tell him that it's not working at all. Tel him nicely, he won't be too upset as he has been through it before. And also tell him why you're breaking up with him, it might make him want to feel a little calm.
Honestly, if this is the second time you're leaving him, don't worry about doing it nicely. He had TWO chances to keep you, he screwed them both up. I'd just say ';listen, i gave you a second chance, and you threw it away. I'm tired of trying, so we are done';








\nn/ rock on!
Tell him you finally realized that it won't work with both of you so it is better to part and give more space for each other then after this, be sure not to go back to him anymore. Less drama the better.
Slap him and say, WHY, WHY? No, all joking aside, say ';I'm sorry, this just isn't working. Maybe another time. i think for a while, we need to see other people, I'm sorry.'; Okay? Hope I helped.
Do it in PUBLIC! There might be less chance of him getting really upset/pissed about it. Just say that the relationship isn't working for you and that he would do better with someone else.
What you just said. I am sorry, but I think it was a mistake getting back together. I care about you as a friend, but old feelings just arent there anymore.
Tell him you need some time alone to think. Tell him you can still be friends and all....
Better to tell him it's not working than string him along.
Give him a gift and tell him the truth.
HEs already screwed up twice, don't worrya bout it
Send him a link to your question on YA.That should get the message across.
kick him the balls and say to him ';you are gay'; (lol)
during sex tell him then he wont be that mad