How do i break up with my boyfriend?

I broke up with him before and he took me back.I need to break up with him now and i dont know what to say.Help please?How do i break up with my boyfriend?
Don't be a whimp and get it over with, tell him you don't want to be with him anymore...simple. Hope u know that you can't keep going backwards and forwards from him as he won't keep taking you back.How do i break up with my boyfriend?
Breaking up with your boyfriend can be one of the hardest things you have to do. A break-up should be considered an ultimate form of confrontation, and many of us do not do well in that area. Keep in mind there are many different routes you can take to break up with your boyfriend, but if you want what’s best for the two of you, be mature about it. Here are a few steps you could take that might ease the process:


- Think it over. Weigh the pros and cons of the situation. When you come face to face with your boyfriend, you need to be prepared for what you are going to say to him. Consider his reaction to the news and what he might say.


- Meet with your boyfriend in person. Make sure the location where the break-up is going to take place is in a comfortable setting for the both of you. This will ease nerves and help make it easier to talk.


- Let your boyfriend know you have something important to say once you meet. Make it clear that he needs to listen.


- State your opinion on why you want to break up. This is the most important step. Your boyfriend needs to hear very clearly why you want to break up with him. Speak in well-thought out sentences. You need to show that you know exactly what you want so he won’t doubt your thinking.


- Ask how he feels about the situation. Keep an open mind to his opinions, but don’t lose sight of your own argument. Even though you are breaking up with him, his opinion still counts.





Ask how he feels about the situation. Keep an open mind to his opinions, but don’t lose sight of your own argument. Even though you are breaking up with him, his opinion still counts. If you'd like to remain friends with him after the break up, try taking these steps:


- Don’t say things that you don’t mean and will eventually regret. In the heat of a break-up argument you may find yourself justifying feelings of guilt with attacks that aren’t necessarily founded and rashly hit upon your boyfriend’s character. Keep your cool and keep your justifications to sensible, true-to-the-heart comments about bad habits that he could have changed and may try to change in the future.


- Stay away from trite remarks such as, “It isn’t you. It’s me.” Instead, elucidate all the original reasons why you both couldn’t make it work. Be specific without nitpicking or reaching for clichés.


- Give your boyfriend some time after the break-up before making contact again. After a few days, or perhaps a week, contact him to let him know that you truly care how he is faring the break-up. If he conveys that he needs more time to get over you before a friendship can even be possible, indicate that you’re always there if and as soon he needs you--even for closure on the romantic aspect of your relationship.


- When things cool down, get together for a casual lunch or coffee to check up on each other’s lives. Don’t gush about your new life without him right away. Ease into friendship with neutral topics such as work and mutual friends. Gradually, if things progress, you may be able to discuss outside romantic interests.





I hope this answer is helpful to you. Good luck with the break up!
Sit down with him in person, or on the phone if it makes you feel more comfortable and tell him you're glad he took you back but that you just don't feel things are workin out. Let him know its not him, that you care about him, and that you don't wanna hurt his feelings that you just want to let him know so he can find someone he truly deserves. Hope this helps!
dont break up with him if youre not sure that you really want to.... remember, people get tired of getting hurt.... and if youre not yet sure of your feelings, you better make up your mind.... he accepted you again right? he is a wonderful guy.... but if youre really sure that you want to break up with him, then, you better tell him the reasons why you think the relationship no longer works for you..... because leaving without giving any reason is the most hurtful thing you can do to anyone..... i've been through that.... i've been depressed due to a situation like that..... so please darling, think a lot before you do any move.....





when we make decisions, we leave marks.... either these marks are of happiness or sorrow....


remember, once its done, its permanent.... so think twice.... goodluck!
well dont be like my ex and just leave and not say a word. just talk to him be upfront and honest thats it plain and simple yes it might hurt but in time you both will have respect for one another for having a honest break up talk.
Say, ';It's just not working, it's over.'; Then cut of ALL communication with him. Facebook, phone, email, everything in your power.
tell him flat out we are done forget me we are no longer dating.
do it in person if you have a heart.


tell him all the truth and no lies


then it is all ssaid and done !
Tell him the reason why you wanna break up with him. That seems to be the best way.
Don't talk to him then he will finally dump you, that way you won't feel bad :)
You need to give more information. Poor guy you are breaking his heart and you probably psycho.
say you like females or cheat on him with a giant black man.
Tell her youve cheated ... not one you want ...belive me


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