i know it sounds stupid but go old fashion and write him a letter it will let you get the things you want to say off your chest and is not impersonal as a text message How do i break up with my boyfriend when i never talk to him?
Tell him that you NEED to see him, it's really important that you talk to him face to face. If he still refuses to see you then do it on the phone(NOT TEXT, call him). I agree that it's better to do it in person, but doing it in person also means he has to be there and if he just simply won't then he left you with no other choice. It sucks, but you can't force him to meet you.
I had this happen to me. The guy knew that if we met I was going to break up with him, so he avoided speaking to me. In the end it took me 6 weeks to finally get to see him to break up. I thought I was doing the right thing by waiting to see him in person, but in the end it only frustrated me for 6 weeks, I should have just left a message on his voicemail. If your boyfriend is being a dick for not taking your calls then the best you can do is send him a voicemail. Don't put yourself through the drama in order to be polite. he isn't. Besides I am sure he will call once he gets that message.
ha that was the same problem i had a week ago.
i was planning on just breaking up with him over the phone but he ended up coming over to talk real quick and i broke up with him then.
and really, who cares if you do.
i mean if hes too busy to meet with you then obviously he doesn't care,
and if you guys don't even talk that much then whats the loss and i know it sounds rude but even if he gets mad, you have a reason to be mad it him since he never wanted to talk. ya kno?
just call him and leave him a message and say.
Hey... _____. Since we don't really talk or anything and you don't answer my calls and your too busy to meet with me, then i think we should break up. Bye!
and try to make it sound like you don't even care and make it sound like you've been wanting to break up for a while and stuff so it doesn't make him feel more powerful and think that you've been crying over him or something. after you press end and if you want to cry, go to the freezer, grab a tub of ice cream, call up your friends and spend a whole night watching sad movies and talking crap about him :]
It's not heartless... heartless is failing to communicate with your bf or gf and that's what he's done so by all means, use text or email.
And you don't have to pour your heart out, keep it simple. Let him know that had he called or saw you then you would have done it in person, but since he didn't you have no choice but to do it this way. And just say it's over. That's nenough.
He shouldn't care, you don't talk to him anyway.
are you sure he hasn't already broken up w/you in a such a way as you described above? at least in his head and hasn't the nerve to tell you and hope you take the hint? sounds a bit like he can't face you out of guilt or spending time w/some new chick...
did you ever ask him what he's so busy w/anyway? after the emotional futzing about you describe above, txtng him 'C U when i C U' would be no biggie. /he/ set the stage by avoiding you first. sounds like he doesn't deserve you anyway.
Not heartless.. he has already broken up with you in his mind he's just too gutless to come out with it. So just send him an email or whatever and say, well I guess it is probably clear to you that this isn't what either of us had in mind. I think you are a great guy, but it isn't working out and I think you are leaving it to me to say this. I wanted to tell you in person but you made it impossible, and that is okay. We all handle things the way we need to in order to get by. So see.. make it not dramatic, just adult, to the point and kind of blah. You've been great, but I gotta. go... that kind of vibe. Don't make it a thing and it won't be a thing.
Call him and tell him you have something important to talk about and he needs to meet you at a certain time and place. Show up and if he doesn't show, or sends a text telling you he can't, then let him know the relationship is over and move on with your life.
Well my friend went through this the other day. He never answered the phone. And i`d be talking to him on nexopia and shed message him and he wouldn't reply. His x box was more important. But she jus sent him a message saying were done... it has to be something he goes on though. Like for sure.
If you really can't meet with him, then you will have no shame in a non-face-to-face break up. Just explain why you are using whatever method you choose. There's no reason you should have to keep suffering through the relationship because he is busy.
Ask him for the time. Tell him it's important. If he's still too 'busy' use whatever way you choose (text, email, voicemail, etc.) to let him know it's over. At least you will have the peace of mind knowing that you gave him one last chance to make the right decision.
sounds to me like ur already broken up if u never see him. I dont see the problem here. if he is always too busy to see u, then u need to be too busy to send him something other than a text to dump is ***. and if he asks why u dumped him over text, just say u were too busy.
well like you said, texting nor internet is the not the right way to breakup. so instead of that either tell his friend to meet you (not to tell him to break up for you) or track hi down and tell him you NEED to talk.
Good Luck!
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ask him to meet up with you anyways.
if he's too ';busy';, just say ';look i wanted to do this in person but you're always too busy for me so i think we should break up. sorry i had to do it like this';
the end.
If you want a more formal way to break up with him, call him. There's also nothing wrong with a well-written email.
It's really only a text message via cell phone or instant messenger that's sort of impolite.
well just get ahold of him by phone or whatever and tell him you are done That its what you do. I mean hes a monster and you should have probably never gone with him he sounds very bad.
Write him a letter describing how you feel and that you feel ignored.
Writing a letter my not be as good as face to face but its more personal since you took the time to write it.
Well call him or either y'all are going to have to meet,be direct with him and tell him that y'all aren't working out and you don't see y'all going anywhere and i'm breaking up with you.
He doesn't sound like much of a boyfriend if he doesn't ever talk to you. Leave him a phone message and tell him he left you with no choice but to break up by message since hes always too busy.
text him and say i have something really really important to tell you.
and then he'll wonder what. and meet you.
Over text!
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Just tell him it's over over a text message if he's that busy I mean come on if he doesn't have time for you he never should have went out with you!! Find someone better that has time for you!
Just cut off all ties with him. No texts or voicemail. When he questions why he hasn't heard from you tell him you figured it was over.
start with the frase ';im srry'; then go on telling him y ur breaking up with him...better be face to face but if u cant then phone is the best!!!!!
if he is alwys to busy to meet with you, i'd consider myself broken up with ! stop replying to his texts and see what happens....
Tell him how you feel and we dont connect to a certain level that both of us is so interested to talk.
There's nothing to break up if you are never together.
just start dating someone else. let the other relationship just fade away.
Tell him you have something very important to tell him and if he doesn't come he's dumped.
dont feel bad bout breakin up online or by text, obviously its not much of a relationship if you dnt even talk!!!
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