I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 and a half years.. how do i get over him?

we broke up yesterday, it really hurts and i want it to stop :( i keep crying and remembering all the good times we had together and its sad to see that our relationship failed.





how can i cheer myself up and get over him?I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 and a half years.. how do i get over him?
OK, firstly im sorry that happened but things happen for the best all the time and you should never be mad at yourself.


the best way to forget something is move on


the best way to move on is find a hobbie and there are millions, maybe find a new job somewhere a bit further,maybe start gardening or something you know the possibilities are endless you just have to keep moving forward.I broke up with my boyfriend of 2 and a half years.. how do i get over him?
The only way to move on is time..The memories of all the good times will always be there no matter what you do.. Best thing I can tell you to do is find someone to create new and better news..If it's to early to be in a relationship then just start dating.. There's nothing wrong with flirting and socializing with others.. My friend and I were both in ending relationships around the same time and become each other crutch.. No sex but we kiss on occasion and flirt a lot.. We both think there's something there between us but we're waiting it out.. So basically just get back into the game at your own pace.. If you allow yourself to get stuck on him then eventually you'll get lose in him and you'll never find anything who will live up to his expectation..





Good luck:)
Sorry to hear about your loss.





You need to cry it all out. Cry angry tears. Cry happy tears. Cry lonely tears. Just cry.


Vent a bit. Write in your diary. Draw about it, sucky drawings or happy drawings.


You see all those letters, text messages, pictures, and e-mails you have saved? Either put them away in a place you will NOT run into unless you REALLY tried ... or throw them away. I would rather you throw them away. The ';what if he comes back'; thought WILL hinder your progress.





And if you need to cry again and regress, it's fine. As long as you eventually get back up and say ';I will move on';, then there's no failure.
Girl, ur in pain because u love him....now these are the questions u need to ask yourself.





#1. Is the break up worth the hurt I feel





#2. Is what ever we argued about fix-able





Now if u come up with a no for #1 and a yes for #2 then u need to go and talk to ur man.





But if the answers are the other way around then my dear, only time can heal ur pain! Good Luck
Go for a long walk in the woods. Nature heals if you force yourself to pay attention to your surroundings out side. If you go alone, be careful.
Keep busy.