i have been dating my boyfriend for a year and 2 months and it hasnt been so great. i want it to end because he is getting on my nerves and just the other day he left a bruise on me, and today he hit me in my nose and didnt say sorry. i wanna break up, but i am scared to how do i get him to or atleast me try and break up with him.
please help me!!What are some ways to get my boyfriend to break up with me?
cheat on him with a hotter guyWhat are some ways to get my boyfriend to break up with me?
Lol, here's a super funny way to break up with him and make it his fault.If you all have a myspace or facebook, make up a fake profile or a really hot girl, and then flirt with him on it.Like, say you just moved here, and wanna ';have some fun'; with somebody.It might not work if your bf is actually a nice guy, but this sure worked for a few of mine before I got married.(no offense, but a lot of men easily cave into their sexual instincts, whether they are really going to do it or not, they like to at least flirt to get themselves off).So, get him to say some scandilous things to her, and then when you get all the dirt you need, then go about ';accidentally finding out';.Such as..';my computer accidentally logged me into your myspace, and I saw that message.You're a cheating jerk and it's over.'; or! (this one is less believable though) say'; some girl forwarded me a message between you and her, and said 'Ijust thought you should know =)', you're a cheating jerk and it's over';
=)
This is a tricky situation and you are going to need to exercise some great caution. If you make it too obvious, he will most likely hurt you again. If you do not make it obvious enough, he can think he has a chance and keep up his prior actions. Here is my suggestion:
First of all, letting him break up with you is letting him feel control. This can make the break-up violent, emotionally wearing, and can and most likely will ultimately result in you being hurt.
There is a solution, however. Grab a group of your closest, best friends and bring them AND your soon-to-be ex-boyfriend. Sit him down, and with the support of all of your friends, tell him what he did was unacceptable and that you want to end it.
By having your friends there, you prevent him getting violent. Also, you have a support group in case things get emotional. There is one more benefit: If he tries something rude, crude, or socially unacceptable, a girl's pals are the best people to retaliate in honor of a close friend.
I hope I helped!
Good luck!
I would advise not to let him catch you cheating. If he hits you and doesn't apologize, imagine what he may do if he catches you behind his back. I would just tell him that you do not feel the same toward him anymore and that you think it is best for you two to break up. If you cannot do that, you might have to do it the hard way and be mean. I would just blow him off when you two are suppose to have plans and also not really return his calls. I wouldn't really do that as a first choice though. Try doing it the nice way first lol He is still a human being.
if you are scare of breaking up with him in person send and email and block his called and if you want to break up with him in person go to a public place like a restaurant and also tell at least 2 friends who are guys (brothers, friends, cousins) to go to the restaurant and sit near you, just in case you did them. When he is sitting down look him in the eyes and said. I don't think i can continue this relationship any more.If he wants to talk about it tell him no. When you are done telling what you want tell him. Their nothing more to said and walk out of the restaurant. HAve your friends follow you out of the restaurant. I hope everything Works out for you
Here are some ways
Cheat on him
Lie about cheating on him
Flirt with people
Hang out with guys behind his back
Dress slutty
Put slutty pictures of you on Facebook/MSN
Hit on his friends
Be out going
Drink at a bar
Have sleep overs with other guys
Hug other guys
Kiss other guys on the cheek
Write fake love notes to a guy and leave them around for him to find
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The best thing to do is just leave him. Walk away and explain it to him over msn, facebook, hotmail, text, or anything that is not with him in person. If he hit you in any way, you don't know how well he is going to take all those actions I just mentioned. You can do those if you want, if that's what you had in mind, but leave far away. Live with a friend, family, or some one you trust, and explain it to him over e-mail. Say your not happy and you just needed to leave. Don't tell him where you are. Delete him off anything after you e-mailed him. Don't wait for a reply or anything. Get him off Facebook, E-mail, Skype, Myspace, or msn. Anything. If he starts stalking you, then change your e-mail and facebook. Put him on any block list you can. This guy sounds a little bit like a phys-co path, so that's why I am telling you all of this. As I said you can do any of the recommended above but I tell you to just leave. You don't want to make him more angry then he is, if he hits you.
Be safe
Good Luck!
You shouldn't cheat on an abusive guy, and by the way hitting you is not OK even if he did say sorry. If he is, in fact, abusive you need to be mature about it and, instead of playing these kind of games, talk to him when he's real calm and tell him to get help. Get him an anger management book because he probably wont go unless it gets real bad and he gets court ordered to do so but maybe you can prevent him from doing this to someone else. Then tell him straight up that's why you're breaking up with him.
Don't listen to any of the people who say to cheat on him. If he's hit you before, then cheating on him will only get him to be more violent towards you. He would most likely beat up the other guy involved too.
If he ever hits you again, call the police. That way he's getting what he deserves, you'll both be broken up, and he'll think twice about hitting a girl again.
Just leave him. Tell him it's not working out, and make sure you have a friend or family member there with you when you tell him. If he causes further trouble, call the cops and explain the situation.
This isn't rocket science here. Just tell him ';I'm not interested in seeing you anymore.';
Don't argue with him, and don't let it drag out. Simple tell him, wish him well, and go about your day. If he argues, tell him that if he lays a hand on you in any way again, you are filing charges against him.
Cheating on him when he's already shown he is willing to hit you is not going to make him break up with you. He'll just hit you some more.
Why are you waiting for him to break up with you? If he's a beater then he's gonna hold on to you because you're allowing him to use you as his personal punching bag. Just tell him you don't wanna be with him anymore. He has to accept your wishes and let you go. Otherwise, if he hurts you again, that's what the police are for.
You break it off, he's a piece of crap and you shouldn't have to put up with it. Tell him it's over and if he hits you you'll go to the police.
Be strong, women don't have to take that crap from guys like that. And guys like that don't deserve to have a girl. It irks me that such a piece of crap could get a girl in the first place where guys like me have such a hard time.
LEAVE! When he's not there, gone out with the boys.... pack your stuff and leave. If there is furniture, or something that you split cost with or is originally yours, sue for it later. Pack what you can and what means most and leave. Go to your parents house, or a friends or something and leave him a note.
Hitting is not tolerated. I never want a person to stay in a relationship where the man or partner is hitting them or harming them.
Be honest with him and tell him that your fed up of the way that he treats you.
It doesn't sound like he treats you the way a girl should be treated, and obviously you don't like this...
so yeah just tell him you hate how he treats you.
failing that you dump him.
if your really not happy being with him, then i suggest you dump him, make him think about how hes treated you!
hope everything goes okay.
good luck :)
either tell him that u r gay
or u should go out on a date with ur boyfriend somewere out in public where is lots of people, (i would suggjest the beach) then say i brb to him and t hen tell him to look @ u and then kiss a random person right in front of him, then he will get pissed that is always how i do it . (lolz) jk , but u should really tri it though
what a loser!
ive been cheated on, and it's not nice. it hurts so much.
so just be honest and tell him how you feel and sort it out with him or
if you feel that its still not going to go anywhere just tell him it's not
working out and dump him.
he would appreciate your decency.
First tell him to sit down and calmly tell him that there are problems in your relationship and that you wanna discuss them.....call the police if he's hurting you and once the cops come then tell him your breaking up with him becuz your not willing to sit down and fix these problems... lol safer environment
Do you not want to be straight up and tell him its over?! If so be mean to him, be rude, don't answer his calls, dont return his calls, act like hes nothing to do like if you even care about the relationship. This should work...if it doesn't he must really not care so you might as well be straight up and brake it off. dont wast another year!!!
Talk to his best friend, tell him the situation, see if he'll help. Make up this scenario of you and his best friend being together. And in the middle of an arguement say something the along the line of somethin
';You know what? [Insert best friend's name] is better in bed!';
And walk away.
put some deoderant on that realllllly smells bad ;) should work! =D x
OR... you could do something more normal - you could just say annoying or really random things that will make him think your a little strange ;) or you could spend more time with your friends and gradually distance yourselves from eachother, and then eventually you might get a result. Just out of interest, why don't you just break up with him?
x
Sweetie, get out now. Abusive relationships are scary and emotionally scarring. Just leave. He probably wont leave you, because he knows he has a certain amount of control over you. Do not cheat on him, because he could get angry and abusive. Talk to authorities immediately. Best of luck!
If he is hitting you, or physically hurting you, call the police right away! Do NOT cheat like other people are saying, he might get angry and hurt you, or the guy. Call the police and inform them on this, it's against the law, this is known as domestic violence.
If he is abusing you, then you leave him...call the police if you're scared. I don't know how old you are, but tell someone!! That is unacceptable behavior. Do not do anything to make him angry or jealous, which could just create more violent behavior towards you. You need to seek help immediately...good luck!!
Cheat on him, break up with him, stab him in the neck, get lockjaw while giving him head, tell him about your toe fungus fetish, start smoking crack, get drunk and puke on him, ask him if you can buttfuck him with a strap-on, tell him you are a lesbian....
Holy ****, dont let him do that!
yesterday it was internation womans day. In my Amnesty group we had an alternative catwalk about mens violence against women.
Anyways, you have to break up with him! Maybe have a friend with you or something incase he tries to hurt you. Don't wait too long, just let it out!
Best of luck sweetie
He sounds like an ***. You shouldn't wait for him to break up with you. He might be one of those guys that likes to beat up on women and has no respect for them. You should dump his *** now and he will be the one hurting for it. No real man would get physical with a woman.
call in for domestic violence... get a hidden camera and tape yourself getting hit... this will just add as factual proof... then getr a restraining order.
Look girl NO LADY deserves to get a finger on her... You deserve a much better guy. AND you will find him... just drop this turd...youll never look back
just start ignorning him .. and tell him your done ....if hes leaving bruses and **** on you .. its gonna be a tough break up ... just call him one day and tell im its over..your through ..you dont want more of his **** .. and then ignore all his calls..messeges etc... he'll get the hint..and if not restraining order for the psycopath :p
Its better to just tell him that you dont want to be with someone that you will be scared of, and if he tries or threathens to hit you, then you threaten to call the cops.
You're going to have to do it. If he has someone he can beat then he's not going to want to let it go. You have to do it yourself.
Um you need to get out of the relationship fast! Call the police and tell them that they hit you. If you try to get him to break up with him he might get angry and hit you again. Hope it works out
Grow up and just tell him how you feel.
Its so stupid trying to get him to do it, when your the one who wants it to end.
Friday, August 20, 2010
How do I break up with my boyfriend over the phone?
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 2 months and I don't think I feel the same way I did before. How do i be nice and show him that I don't like him anymore at the same time???
PLEASE HELP ME BEFORE ITS TO LATE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!How do I break up with my boyfriend over the phone?
write him a letter thats the best thing to do its the best way to explain how your feeling and how much you dont want to hurt his feelings and if he doesnt leave you alone change your phone numberHow do I break up with my boyfriend over the phone?
Generally, you don't break up over the phone.
If you can get together and do it in person, that is much more efficient.
Just tell him, look you're a cool guy and all, but I am just not interested in having a relationship with you at this time. We can still talk and be friends if you'd like, but I don't want to be together.
Thank him for the fun times you guys had together (if you had em) and go your seperate ways. Remember to state your reasons for making this decision and just be as kind as possible if you dont want to hurt him.
It shouldnt be a big deal, trust me, two months really isnt much. (Hell I just broke off three years!)
Best of luck :)
don't do it over the phone! thats one of the worst things you can do =/
my suggestion is you just say ';I don't feel the same way anymore, ive changed. I have no idea what happened, i just don't feel that way towards you anymore.'; but itd be better to say to his face. gotta give him that much ay?
you could also just say whats on you mind ;)
The best thing to do is to not break up over the phone. That's kind of harsh. You should tell this guy in person and talk about it together. For kids...it's not that big of a deal though, because they just play around. But, do whatever you feel is right.
first of all you don't brake up with your boyfriend over the phone it show him what kind of person you really are you do it face to face and you just say what is on your mind nothing mean
Have some respect for the guy and don't hurt him unnecessarily by doing it in a cowardly manner.
It's best to not do it over the phone
but if you have to
then call him and tell him yourself how you feel in a respectful way.
ADVICE-----
Tell him yourself!!!!!
nah.... not over the phone.
that really shows how much the relationship wasn't serious.............
Not ova the phone %26gt;:( its not nice
just tell im sorry but i just think we should be together i just dont like u anymore please dont be mad but we could still be friends. tell him ur reason though
Dont do it over the phone, its just mean... face to face is better.
Tell him that your love has settled down to in like with him.
Don't be scummy. Do it in person.
its mean to do it over the phone lady
Say it in person, or don't say it all.
It's cowardly doing it over the phone/by text/online.
you don't...do it in person, or don't date.
Ouch tough one, the best thing is just to explain how you feel...
uhh idk hun
U HAVE TO DO IT IN PERSON And be straight up
PLEASE HELP ME BEFORE ITS TO LATE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!How do I break up with my boyfriend over the phone?
write him a letter thats the best thing to do its the best way to explain how your feeling and how much you dont want to hurt his feelings and if he doesnt leave you alone change your phone numberHow do I break up with my boyfriend over the phone?
Generally, you don't break up over the phone.
If you can get together and do it in person, that is much more efficient.
Just tell him, look you're a cool guy and all, but I am just not interested in having a relationship with you at this time. We can still talk and be friends if you'd like, but I don't want to be together.
Thank him for the fun times you guys had together (if you had em) and go your seperate ways. Remember to state your reasons for making this decision and just be as kind as possible if you dont want to hurt him.
It shouldnt be a big deal, trust me, two months really isnt much. (Hell I just broke off three years!)
Best of luck :)
don't do it over the phone! thats one of the worst things you can do =/
my suggestion is you just say ';I don't feel the same way anymore, ive changed. I have no idea what happened, i just don't feel that way towards you anymore.'; but itd be better to say to his face. gotta give him that much ay?
you could also just say whats on you mind ;)
The best thing to do is to not break up over the phone. That's kind of harsh. You should tell this guy in person and talk about it together. For kids...it's not that big of a deal though, because they just play around. But, do whatever you feel is right.
first of all you don't brake up with your boyfriend over the phone it show him what kind of person you really are you do it face to face and you just say what is on your mind nothing mean
Have some respect for the guy and don't hurt him unnecessarily by doing it in a cowardly manner.
It's best to not do it over the phone
but if you have to
then call him and tell him yourself how you feel in a respectful way.
ADVICE-----
Tell him yourself!!!!!
nah.... not over the phone.
that really shows how much the relationship wasn't serious.............
Not ova the phone %26gt;:( its not nice
just tell im sorry but i just think we should be together i just dont like u anymore please dont be mad but we could still be friends. tell him ur reason though
Dont do it over the phone, its just mean... face to face is better.
Tell him that your love has settled down to in like with him.
Don't be scummy. Do it in person.
its mean to do it over the phone lady
Say it in person, or don't say it all.
It's cowardly doing it over the phone/by text/online.
you don't...do it in person, or don't date.
Ouch tough one, the best thing is just to explain how you feel...
uhh idk hun
U HAVE TO DO IT IN PERSON And be straight up
How do I break up with my boyfriend without breaking his heart?
I love this boy to death, but he cheated on me twice, and he has a baby. His daughter is starting to take a liking to me by calling me mommy, and I don't want his daughter to be upset because of us breaking up. HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!How do I break up with my boyfriend without breaking his heart?
If you're going to leave do it sooner rather than later, especially because of the growing attachment of his daughter. I think you're making the right decision if he's cheated on you twice already it's likely he'll keep doing it in the future. The bad news is that you can't break up with someone that cares about you without hurting his feelings. You just need to sit him down and tell him it's over. If he asks why give him your reasons but remember that you don't have to defend your decision. Be civil, sympathetic if necessary, let him cry a little but don't listen if he tries to reason with you. It's going to be hard and you need to be strong. Good luck.How do I break up with my boyfriend without breaking his heart?
there is no way to break up with somebody without break his heart. tell him the trust why ur breaking with him. and the girl will understand
OK. I do no mean to be rude, but he cheated on you. His feelings should be the last thing you think about. I do not mean to be harsh either, but the child is young. I really do not think she Will be real upset about it. better now than when she is old enough to know better.
Just leave him! He cheated on you. Yes you don't want to hurt the daughter, but hey. It's not your daughter, it's his. It wouldn't be your fault for hurting the daughter. And if I were you, I would leave before she gets way to attached. Seriously, you don't deserve a man that's going to cheat on you. They are junk.
Can't help you....breaking up is just hard to do. Be honest and quick. It's gonna hurt all 3 of you, no matter what.
there is no way of not breaking his heart. i have to say this he broke ur heart so it makes sense that u may heart his but he hurt u 1st. i think the whole reason why u r hesitant is b/c of his little girl. but u have to do whats best for you
If you're going to leave do it sooner rather than later, especially because of the growing attachment of his daughter. I think you're making the right decision if he's cheated on you twice already it's likely he'll keep doing it in the future. The bad news is that you can't break up with someone that cares about you without hurting his feelings. You just need to sit him down and tell him it's over. If he asks why give him your reasons but remember that you don't have to defend your decision. Be civil, sympathetic if necessary, let him cry a little but don't listen if he tries to reason with you. It's going to be hard and you need to be strong. Good luck.How do I break up with my boyfriend without breaking his heart?
there is no way to break up with somebody without break his heart. tell him the trust why ur breaking with him. and the girl will understand
OK. I do no mean to be rude, but he cheated on you. His feelings should be the last thing you think about. I do not mean to be harsh either, but the child is young. I really do not think she Will be real upset about it. better now than when she is old enough to know better.
Just leave him! He cheated on you. Yes you don't want to hurt the daughter, but hey. It's not your daughter, it's his. It wouldn't be your fault for hurting the daughter. And if I were you, I would leave before she gets way to attached. Seriously, you don't deserve a man that's going to cheat on you. They are junk.
Can't help you....breaking up is just hard to do. Be honest and quick. It's gonna hurt all 3 of you, no matter what.
there is no way of not breaking his heart. i have to say this he broke ur heart so it makes sense that u may heart his but he hurt u 1st. i think the whole reason why u r hesitant is b/c of his little girl. but u have to do whats best for you
What are some ways to get my boyfriend to break up with me?
i have been dating my boyfriend for a year and 2 months and it hasnt been so great. i want it to end because he is getting on my nerves and just the other day he left a bruise on me, and today he hit me in my nose and didnt say sorry. i wanna break up, but i am scared to how do i get him to or atleast me try and break up with him.
please help me!!What are some ways to get my boyfriend to break up with me?
cheat on him with a hotter guyWhat are some ways to get my boyfriend to break up with me?
Lol, here's a super funny way to break up with him and make it his fault.If you all have a myspace or facebook, make up a fake profile or a really hot girl, and then flirt with him on it.Like, say you just moved here, and wanna ';have some fun'; with somebody.It might not work if your bf is actually a nice guy, but this sure worked for a few of mine before I got married.(no offense, but a lot of men easily cave into their sexual instincts, whether they are really going to do it or not, they like to at least flirt to get themselves off).So, get him to say some scandilous things to her, and then when you get all the dirt you need, then go about ';accidentally finding out';.Such as..';my computer accidentally logged me into your myspace, and I saw that message.You're a cheating jerk and it's over.'; or! (this one is less believable though) say'; some girl forwarded me a message between you and her, and said 'Ijust thought you should know =)', you're a cheating jerk and it's over';
=)
This is a tricky situation and you are going to need to exercise some great caution. If you make it too obvious, he will most likely hurt you again. If you do not make it obvious enough, he can think he has a chance and keep up his prior actions. Here is my suggestion:
First of all, letting him break up with you is letting him feel control. This can make the break-up violent, emotionally wearing, and can and most likely will ultimately result in you being hurt.
There is a solution, however. Grab a group of your closest, best friends and bring them AND your soon-to-be ex-boyfriend. Sit him down, and with the support of all of your friends, tell him what he did was unacceptable and that you want to end it.
By having your friends there, you prevent him getting violent. Also, you have a support group in case things get emotional. There is one more benefit: If he tries something rude, crude, or socially unacceptable, a girl's pals are the best people to retaliate in honor of a close friend.
I hope I helped!
Good luck!
I would advise not to let him catch you cheating. If he hits you and doesn't apologize, imagine what he may do if he catches you behind his back. I would just tell him that you do not feel the same toward him anymore and that you think it is best for you two to break up. If you cannot do that, you might have to do it the hard way and be mean. I would just blow him off when you two are suppose to have plans and also not really return his calls. I wouldn't really do that as a first choice though. Try doing it the nice way first lol He is still a human being.
if you are scare of breaking up with him in person send and email and block his called and if you want to break up with him in person go to a public place like a restaurant and also tell at least 2 friends who are guys (brothers, friends, cousins) to go to the restaurant and sit near you, just in case you did them. When he is sitting down look him in the eyes and said. I don't think i can continue this relationship any more.If he wants to talk about it tell him no. When you are done telling what you want tell him. Their nothing more to said and walk out of the restaurant. HAve your friends follow you out of the restaurant. I hope everything Works out for you
Here are some ways
Cheat on him
Lie about cheating on him
Flirt with people
Hang out with guys behind his back
Dress slutty
Put slutty pictures of you on Facebook/MSN
Hit on his friends
Be out going
Drink at a bar
Have sleep overs with other guys
Hug other guys
Kiss other guys on the cheek
Write fake love notes to a guy and leave them around for him to find
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The best thing to do is just leave him. Walk away and explain it to him over msn, facebook, hotmail, text, or anything that is not with him in person. If he hit you in any way, you don't know how well he is going to take all those actions I just mentioned. You can do those if you want, if that's what you had in mind, but leave far away. Live with a friend, family, or some one you trust, and explain it to him over e-mail. Say your not happy and you just needed to leave. Don't tell him where you are. Delete him off anything after you e-mailed him. Don't wait for a reply or anything. Get him off Facebook, E-mail, Skype, Myspace, or msn. Anything. If he starts stalking you, then change your e-mail and facebook. Put him on any block list you can. This guy sounds a little bit like a phys-co path, so that's why I am telling you all of this. As I said you can do any of the recommended above but I tell you to just leave. You don't want to make him more angry then he is, if he hits you.
Be safe
Good Luck!
You shouldn't cheat on an abusive guy, and by the way hitting you is not OK even if he did say sorry. If he is, in fact, abusive you need to be mature about it and, instead of playing these kind of games, talk to him when he's real calm and tell him to get help. Get him an anger management book because he probably wont go unless it gets real bad and he gets court ordered to do so but maybe you can prevent him from doing this to someone else. Then tell him straight up that's why you're breaking up with him.
Don't listen to any of the people who say to cheat on him. If he's hit you before, then cheating on him will only get him to be more violent towards you. He would most likely beat up the other guy involved too.
If he ever hits you again, call the police. That way he's getting what he deserves, you'll both be broken up, and he'll think twice about hitting a girl again.
Just leave him. Tell him it's not working out, and make sure you have a friend or family member there with you when you tell him. If he causes further trouble, call the cops and explain the situation.
This isn't rocket science here. Just tell him ';I'm not interested in seeing you anymore.';
Don't argue with him, and don't let it drag out. Simple tell him, wish him well, and go about your day. If he argues, tell him that if he lays a hand on you in any way again, you are filing charges against him.
Cheating on him when he's already shown he is willing to hit you is not going to make him break up with you. He'll just hit you some more.
Why are you waiting for him to break up with you? If he's a beater then he's gonna hold on to you because you're allowing him to use you as his personal punching bag. Just tell him you don't wanna be with him anymore. He has to accept your wishes and let you go. Otherwise, if he hurts you again, that's what the police are for.
You break it off, he's a piece of crap and you shouldn't have to put up with it. Tell him it's over and if he hits you you'll go to the police.
Be strong, women don't have to take that crap from guys like that. And guys like that don't deserve to have a girl. It irks me that such a piece of crap could get a girl in the first place where guys like me have such a hard time.
LEAVE! When he's not there, gone out with the boys.... pack your stuff and leave. If there is furniture, or something that you split cost with or is originally yours, sue for it later. Pack what you can and what means most and leave. Go to your parents house, or a friends or something and leave him a note.
Hitting is not tolerated. I never want a person to stay in a relationship where the man or partner is hitting them or harming them.
Be honest with him and tell him that your fed up of the way that he treats you.
It doesn't sound like he treats you the way a girl should be treated, and obviously you don't like this...
so yeah just tell him you hate how he treats you.
failing that you dump him.
if your really not happy being with him, then i suggest you dump him, make him think about how hes treated you!
hope everything goes okay.
good luck :)
either tell him that u r gay
or u should go out on a date with ur boyfriend somewere out in public where is lots of people, (i would suggjest the beach) then say i brb to him and t hen tell him to look @ u and then kiss a random person right in front of him, then he will get pissed that is always how i do it . (lolz) jk , but u should really tri it though
what a loser!
ive been cheated on, and it's not nice. it hurts so much.
so just be honest and tell him how you feel and sort it out with him or
if you feel that its still not going to go anywhere just tell him it's not
working out and dump him.
he would appreciate your decency.
First tell him to sit down and calmly tell him that there are problems in your relationship and that you wanna discuss them.....call the police if he's hurting you and once the cops come then tell him your breaking up with him becuz your not willing to sit down and fix these problems... lol safer environment
Do you not want to be straight up and tell him its over?! If so be mean to him, be rude, don't answer his calls, dont return his calls, act like hes nothing to do like if you even care about the relationship. This should work...if it doesn't he must really not care so you might as well be straight up and brake it off. dont wast another year!!!
Talk to his best friend, tell him the situation, see if he'll help. Make up this scenario of you and his best friend being together. And in the middle of an arguement say something the along the line of somethin
';You know what? [Insert best friend's name] is better in bed!';
And walk away.
put some deoderant on that realllllly smells bad ;) should work! =D x
OR... you could do something more normal - you could just say annoying or really random things that will make him think your a little strange ;) or you could spend more time with your friends and gradually distance yourselves from eachother, and then eventually you might get a result. Just out of interest, why don't you just break up with him?
x
Sweetie, get out now. Abusive relationships are scary and emotionally scarring. Just leave. He probably wont leave you, because he knows he has a certain amount of control over you. Do not cheat on him, because he could get angry and abusive. Talk to authorities immediately. Best of luck!
If he is hitting you, or physically hurting you, call the police right away! Do NOT cheat like other people are saying, he might get angry and hurt you, or the guy. Call the police and inform them on this, it's against the law, this is known as domestic violence.
If he is abusing you, then you leave him...call the police if you're scared. I don't know how old you are, but tell someone!! That is unacceptable behavior. Do not do anything to make him angry or jealous, which could just create more violent behavior towards you. You need to seek help immediately...good luck!!
Cheat on him, break up with him, stab him in the neck, get lockjaw while giving him head, tell him about your toe fungus fetish, start smoking crack, get drunk and puke on him, ask him if you can buttfuck him with a strap-on, tell him you are a lesbian....
Holy ****, dont let him do that!
yesterday it was internation womans day. In my Amnesty group we had an alternative catwalk about mens violence against women.
Anyways, you have to break up with him! Maybe have a friend with you or something incase he tries to hurt you. Don't wait too long, just let it out!
Best of luck sweetie
He sounds like an ***. You shouldn't wait for him to break up with you. He might be one of those guys that likes to beat up on women and has no respect for them. You should dump his *** now and he will be the one hurting for it. No real man would get physical with a woman.
call in for domestic violence... get a hidden camera and tape yourself getting hit... this will just add as factual proof... then getr a restraining order.
Look girl NO LADY deserves to get a finger on her... You deserve a much better guy. AND you will find him... just drop this turd...youll never look back
just start ignorning him .. and tell him your done ....if hes leaving bruses and **** on you .. its gonna be a tough break up ... just call him one day and tell im its over..your through ..you dont want more of his **** .. and then ignore all his calls..messeges etc... he'll get the hint..and if not restraining order for the psycopath :p
Its better to just tell him that you dont want to be with someone that you will be scared of, and if he tries or threathens to hit you, then you threaten to call the cops.
You're going to have to do it. If he has someone he can beat then he's not going to want to let it go. You have to do it yourself.
Um you need to get out of the relationship fast! Call the police and tell them that they hit you. If you try to get him to break up with him he might get angry and hit you again. Hope it works out
Grow up and just tell him how you feel.
Its so stupid trying to get him to do it, when your the one who wants it to end.
please help me!!What are some ways to get my boyfriend to break up with me?
cheat on him with a hotter guyWhat are some ways to get my boyfriend to break up with me?
Lol, here's a super funny way to break up with him and make it his fault.If you all have a myspace or facebook, make up a fake profile or a really hot girl, and then flirt with him on it.Like, say you just moved here, and wanna ';have some fun'; with somebody.It might not work if your bf is actually a nice guy, but this sure worked for a few of mine before I got married.(no offense, but a lot of men easily cave into their sexual instincts, whether they are really going to do it or not, they like to at least flirt to get themselves off).So, get him to say some scandilous things to her, and then when you get all the dirt you need, then go about ';accidentally finding out';.Such as..';my computer accidentally logged me into your myspace, and I saw that message.You're a cheating jerk and it's over.'; or! (this one is less believable though) say'; some girl forwarded me a message between you and her, and said 'Ijust thought you should know =)', you're a cheating jerk and it's over';
=)
This is a tricky situation and you are going to need to exercise some great caution. If you make it too obvious, he will most likely hurt you again. If you do not make it obvious enough, he can think he has a chance and keep up his prior actions. Here is my suggestion:
First of all, letting him break up with you is letting him feel control. This can make the break-up violent, emotionally wearing, and can and most likely will ultimately result in you being hurt.
There is a solution, however. Grab a group of your closest, best friends and bring them AND your soon-to-be ex-boyfriend. Sit him down, and with the support of all of your friends, tell him what he did was unacceptable and that you want to end it.
By having your friends there, you prevent him getting violent. Also, you have a support group in case things get emotional. There is one more benefit: If he tries something rude, crude, or socially unacceptable, a girl's pals are the best people to retaliate in honor of a close friend.
I hope I helped!
Good luck!
I would advise not to let him catch you cheating. If he hits you and doesn't apologize, imagine what he may do if he catches you behind his back. I would just tell him that you do not feel the same toward him anymore and that you think it is best for you two to break up. If you cannot do that, you might have to do it the hard way and be mean. I would just blow him off when you two are suppose to have plans and also not really return his calls. I wouldn't really do that as a first choice though. Try doing it the nice way first lol He is still a human being.
if you are scare of breaking up with him in person send and email and block his called and if you want to break up with him in person go to a public place like a restaurant and also tell at least 2 friends who are guys (brothers, friends, cousins) to go to the restaurant and sit near you, just in case you did them. When he is sitting down look him in the eyes and said. I don't think i can continue this relationship any more.If he wants to talk about it tell him no. When you are done telling what you want tell him. Their nothing more to said and walk out of the restaurant. HAve your friends follow you out of the restaurant. I hope everything Works out for you
Here are some ways
Cheat on him
Lie about cheating on him
Flirt with people
Hang out with guys behind his back
Dress slutty
Put slutty pictures of you on Facebook/MSN
Hit on his friends
Be out going
Drink at a bar
Have sleep overs with other guys
Hug other guys
Kiss other guys on the cheek
Write fake love notes to a guy and leave them around for him to find
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The best thing to do is just leave him. Walk away and explain it to him over msn, facebook, hotmail, text, or anything that is not with him in person. If he hit you in any way, you don't know how well he is going to take all those actions I just mentioned. You can do those if you want, if that's what you had in mind, but leave far away. Live with a friend, family, or some one you trust, and explain it to him over e-mail. Say your not happy and you just needed to leave. Don't tell him where you are. Delete him off anything after you e-mailed him. Don't wait for a reply or anything. Get him off Facebook, E-mail, Skype, Myspace, or msn. Anything. If he starts stalking you, then change your e-mail and facebook. Put him on any block list you can. This guy sounds a little bit like a phys-co path, so that's why I am telling you all of this. As I said you can do any of the recommended above but I tell you to just leave. You don't want to make him more angry then he is, if he hits you.
Be safe
Good Luck!
You shouldn't cheat on an abusive guy, and by the way hitting you is not OK even if he did say sorry. If he is, in fact, abusive you need to be mature about it and, instead of playing these kind of games, talk to him when he's real calm and tell him to get help. Get him an anger management book because he probably wont go unless it gets real bad and he gets court ordered to do so but maybe you can prevent him from doing this to someone else. Then tell him straight up that's why you're breaking up with him.
Don't listen to any of the people who say to cheat on him. If he's hit you before, then cheating on him will only get him to be more violent towards you. He would most likely beat up the other guy involved too.
If he ever hits you again, call the police. That way he's getting what he deserves, you'll both be broken up, and he'll think twice about hitting a girl again.
Just leave him. Tell him it's not working out, and make sure you have a friend or family member there with you when you tell him. If he causes further trouble, call the cops and explain the situation.
This isn't rocket science here. Just tell him ';I'm not interested in seeing you anymore.';
Don't argue with him, and don't let it drag out. Simple tell him, wish him well, and go about your day. If he argues, tell him that if he lays a hand on you in any way again, you are filing charges against him.
Cheating on him when he's already shown he is willing to hit you is not going to make him break up with you. He'll just hit you some more.
Why are you waiting for him to break up with you? If he's a beater then he's gonna hold on to you because you're allowing him to use you as his personal punching bag. Just tell him you don't wanna be with him anymore. He has to accept your wishes and let you go. Otherwise, if he hurts you again, that's what the police are for.
You break it off, he's a piece of crap and you shouldn't have to put up with it. Tell him it's over and if he hits you you'll go to the police.
Be strong, women don't have to take that crap from guys like that. And guys like that don't deserve to have a girl. It irks me that such a piece of crap could get a girl in the first place where guys like me have such a hard time.
LEAVE! When he's not there, gone out with the boys.... pack your stuff and leave. If there is furniture, or something that you split cost with or is originally yours, sue for it later. Pack what you can and what means most and leave. Go to your parents house, or a friends or something and leave him a note.
Hitting is not tolerated. I never want a person to stay in a relationship where the man or partner is hitting them or harming them.
Be honest with him and tell him that your fed up of the way that he treats you.
It doesn't sound like he treats you the way a girl should be treated, and obviously you don't like this...
so yeah just tell him you hate how he treats you.
failing that you dump him.
if your really not happy being with him, then i suggest you dump him, make him think about how hes treated you!
hope everything goes okay.
good luck :)
either tell him that u r gay
or u should go out on a date with ur boyfriend somewere out in public where is lots of people, (i would suggjest the beach) then say i brb to him and t hen tell him to look @ u and then kiss a random person right in front of him, then he will get pissed that is always how i do it . (lolz) jk , but u should really tri it though
what a loser!
ive been cheated on, and it's not nice. it hurts so much.
so just be honest and tell him how you feel and sort it out with him or
if you feel that its still not going to go anywhere just tell him it's not
working out and dump him.
he would appreciate your decency.
First tell him to sit down and calmly tell him that there are problems in your relationship and that you wanna discuss them.....call the police if he's hurting you and once the cops come then tell him your breaking up with him becuz your not willing to sit down and fix these problems... lol safer environment
Do you not want to be straight up and tell him its over?! If so be mean to him, be rude, don't answer his calls, dont return his calls, act like hes nothing to do like if you even care about the relationship. This should work...if it doesn't he must really not care so you might as well be straight up and brake it off. dont wast another year!!!
Talk to his best friend, tell him the situation, see if he'll help. Make up this scenario of you and his best friend being together. And in the middle of an arguement say something the along the line of somethin
';You know what? [Insert best friend's name] is better in bed!';
And walk away.
put some deoderant on that realllllly smells bad ;) should work! =D x
OR... you could do something more normal - you could just say annoying or really random things that will make him think your a little strange ;) or you could spend more time with your friends and gradually distance yourselves from eachother, and then eventually you might get a result. Just out of interest, why don't you just break up with him?
x
Sweetie, get out now. Abusive relationships are scary and emotionally scarring. Just leave. He probably wont leave you, because he knows he has a certain amount of control over you. Do not cheat on him, because he could get angry and abusive. Talk to authorities immediately. Best of luck!
If he is hitting you, or physically hurting you, call the police right away! Do NOT cheat like other people are saying, he might get angry and hurt you, or the guy. Call the police and inform them on this, it's against the law, this is known as domestic violence.
If he is abusing you, then you leave him...call the police if you're scared. I don't know how old you are, but tell someone!! That is unacceptable behavior. Do not do anything to make him angry or jealous, which could just create more violent behavior towards you. You need to seek help immediately...good luck!!
Cheat on him, break up with him, stab him in the neck, get lockjaw while giving him head, tell him about your toe fungus fetish, start smoking crack, get drunk and puke on him, ask him if you can buttfuck him with a strap-on, tell him you are a lesbian....
Holy ****, dont let him do that!
yesterday it was internation womans day. In my Amnesty group we had an alternative catwalk about mens violence against women.
Anyways, you have to break up with him! Maybe have a friend with you or something incase he tries to hurt you. Don't wait too long, just let it out!
Best of luck sweetie
He sounds like an ***. You shouldn't wait for him to break up with you. He might be one of those guys that likes to beat up on women and has no respect for them. You should dump his *** now and he will be the one hurting for it. No real man would get physical with a woman.
call in for domestic violence... get a hidden camera and tape yourself getting hit... this will just add as factual proof... then getr a restraining order.
Look girl NO LADY deserves to get a finger on her... You deserve a much better guy. AND you will find him... just drop this turd...youll never look back
just start ignorning him .. and tell him your done ....if hes leaving bruses and **** on you .. its gonna be a tough break up ... just call him one day and tell im its over..your through ..you dont want more of his **** .. and then ignore all his calls..messeges etc... he'll get the hint..and if not restraining order for the psycopath :p
Its better to just tell him that you dont want to be with someone that you will be scared of, and if he tries or threathens to hit you, then you threaten to call the cops.
You're going to have to do it. If he has someone he can beat then he's not going to want to let it go. You have to do it yourself.
Um you need to get out of the relationship fast! Call the police and tell them that they hit you. If you try to get him to break up with him he might get angry and hit you again. Hope it works out
Grow up and just tell him how you feel.
Its so stupid trying to get him to do it, when your the one who wants it to end.
Realistically speaking, how can I break it to my boyfriend that I am a vampire?
I was turned at the age of 20, but that was more than 65 years ago. My sire left me not too long after, he was a philandering type into young girls. I stopped dating for a really long time after that, unable to trust people.
I still keep up the act of being 20, with a few ';outdated'; interests (for instance I am really into antiques and old records/music and sell antiques online for a living) and finally found someone who is intelligent enough to really ';get'; me and actually shares my interests, but he is only 19 and a regular human.
So far he doesn't really suspect anything, I'm pretty good at keeping up the act and can even stomach human food on special occasions, but it is true that I can only go out with him after dark. I have accidentally bitten his neck once or twice when making out, but didn't break the skin or anything since I realized what I was doing.
He pretty much thinks I am a somewhat gothic insomniac, which is something he is okay with.
I'm just wondering, since we're pretty much in it for the long term, should I tell him? I would like to turn him but of course that is ultimately his decision. I'm not worried about him thinking I'm mentally unstable or anything because I can back up quite easily that I am indeed a vampire, I just don't want to scare the guy.
I'm just not too good with words when speaking face to face.Realistically speaking, how can I break it to my boyfriend that I am a vampire?
Please stop trolling and reading Twilight.
Thank you.Realistically speaking, how can I break it to my boyfriend that I am a vampire?
Just bite him and get it over with. Jeez.You're not much of a vamp if you don't have the ability to manipulate a puny human.I'm glad I'm a Lupin.
Ahahahaha, you have no life either.
There's so many stupid questions on here today.
Go get a job and be productive instead of wasting our clean air.
I wanna hit you.
I want to be a vampire too, can you turn me? teehee
what. the. ****.
OBVIOUSLY you need to get out more DURING THE DAY
vampires are NOT and i repeat my self that they ARE NOT REAL
and incase you missed that THERE IS NO SUCH THING STOP LIVING IN A FANTASY WORLD
time to grow up and eat some fruit+ veggies + GARLIC AND NOT PEOPLE. DISGUSTING
absoutly disgusting.
Please, at least try to be original!
Now, if you said you were a Lycan....
what a pleb lmao
Realistically speaking your not a flipping vampire! Grow up and stop watching/reading ***** twilight! IT'S NOT REAL!!!!
....................
Step One: Tell him.
Step Two: Show said vampire like fangs/ hold your hand in the sun to prove it.
Step Three: Show him instant healing powers.
Step Four: Turn him.
IF none of that works, go go gadget medical help......
If you truly are a vampire why are you asking mortals?
dont, he wont believe u.. he is still young and if he'll believe u , the temptation to be like u will be huge for him , and he is not able to think rationally about disadvantages and advantages of your being yet.
Im sorry but realistically i think you need to rethink your life and to stop pretending to be a flippin Vampire. STOP COPYING TWILIGHT! I feel sorry for the person who has to be with you.
you should get out in the daylight more often!!!!!
Just tell that you're a Troll. He'll understand.
Hahahahahahhahahahahahahahaha. Wait- what was the question?
have you ever read anything by anne rice?
have you checked into reality lately?
your not a vampire. if you were then you would no better not to reveal yourself.
you pretend vampires no nothing. someone of such maturity would know how to handle this. im not saying vampires are not real. im saying you are not because older people know this ****!
The obvious troll answer is maybe it's time to get with the story and save us time pondering troll answers......
I am the Vampire hunter, I sit here sharpening my steak. I will hunt you down and use your fangs as ornaments after I have hammered your heart to hell.
By the way how do you do your hair in the mirror.
And u said I was not Intelligent?? bahahahaha you crack whore :)Home Theater backgrounds for myspace
I still keep up the act of being 20, with a few ';outdated'; interests (for instance I am really into antiques and old records/music and sell antiques online for a living) and finally found someone who is intelligent enough to really ';get'; me and actually shares my interests, but he is only 19 and a regular human.
So far he doesn't really suspect anything, I'm pretty good at keeping up the act and can even stomach human food on special occasions, but it is true that I can only go out with him after dark. I have accidentally bitten his neck once or twice when making out, but didn't break the skin or anything since I realized what I was doing.
He pretty much thinks I am a somewhat gothic insomniac, which is something he is okay with.
I'm just wondering, since we're pretty much in it for the long term, should I tell him? I would like to turn him but of course that is ultimately his decision. I'm not worried about him thinking I'm mentally unstable or anything because I can back up quite easily that I am indeed a vampire, I just don't want to scare the guy.
I'm just not too good with words when speaking face to face.Realistically speaking, how can I break it to my boyfriend that I am a vampire?
Please stop trolling and reading Twilight.
Thank you.Realistically speaking, how can I break it to my boyfriend that I am a vampire?
Just bite him and get it over with. Jeez.You're not much of a vamp if you don't have the ability to manipulate a puny human.I'm glad I'm a Lupin.
Ahahahaha, you have no life either.
There's so many stupid questions on here today.
Go get a job and be productive instead of wasting our clean air.
I wanna hit you.
I want to be a vampire too, can you turn me? teehee
what. the. ****.
OBVIOUSLY you need to get out more DURING THE DAY
vampires are NOT and i repeat my self that they ARE NOT REAL
and incase you missed that THERE IS NO SUCH THING STOP LIVING IN A FANTASY WORLD
time to grow up and eat some fruit+ veggies + GARLIC AND NOT PEOPLE. DISGUSTING
absoutly disgusting.
Please, at least try to be original!
Now, if you said you were a Lycan....
what a pleb lmao
Realistically speaking your not a flipping vampire! Grow up and stop watching/reading ***** twilight! IT'S NOT REAL!!!!
....................
Step One: Tell him.
Step Two: Show said vampire like fangs/ hold your hand in the sun to prove it.
Step Three: Show him instant healing powers.
Step Four: Turn him.
IF none of that works, go go gadget medical help......
If you truly are a vampire why are you asking mortals?
dont, he wont believe u.. he is still young and if he'll believe u , the temptation to be like u will be huge for him , and he is not able to think rationally about disadvantages and advantages of your being yet.
Im sorry but realistically i think you need to rethink your life and to stop pretending to be a flippin Vampire. STOP COPYING TWILIGHT! I feel sorry for the person who has to be with you.
you should get out in the daylight more often!!!!!
Just tell that you're a Troll. He'll understand.
Hahahahahahhahahahahahahahaha. Wait- what was the question?
have you ever read anything by anne rice?
have you checked into reality lately?
your not a vampire. if you were then you would no better not to reveal yourself.
you pretend vampires no nothing. someone of such maturity would know how to handle this. im not saying vampires are not real. im saying you are not because older people know this ****!
The obvious troll answer is maybe it's time to get with the story and save us time pondering troll answers......
I am the Vampire hunter, I sit here sharpening my steak. I will hunt you down and use your fangs as ornaments after I have hammered your heart to hell.
By the way how do you do your hair in the mirror.
And u said I was not Intelligent?? bahahahaha you crack whore :)
How do I break up with my boyfriend over the phone?
Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 2 months and I don't think I feel the same way I did before. How do i be nice and show him that I don't like him anymore at the same time???
PLEASE HELP ME BEFORE ITS TO LATE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!How do I break up with my boyfriend over the phone?
write him a letter thats the best thing to do its the best way to explain how your feeling and how much you dont want to hurt his feelings and if he doesnt leave you alone change your phone numberHow do I break up with my boyfriend over the phone?
Generally, you don't break up over the phone.
If you can get together and do it in person, that is much more efficient.
Just tell him, look you're a cool guy and all, but I am just not interested in having a relationship with you at this time. We can still talk and be friends if you'd like, but I don't want to be together.
Thank him for the fun times you guys had together (if you had em) and go your seperate ways. Remember to state your reasons for making this decision and just be as kind as possible if you dont want to hurt him.
It shouldnt be a big deal, trust me, two months really isnt much. (Hell I just broke off three years!)
Best of luck :)
don't do it over the phone! thats one of the worst things you can do =/
my suggestion is you just say ';I don't feel the same way anymore, ive changed. I have no idea what happened, i just don't feel that way towards you anymore.'; but itd be better to say to his face. gotta give him that much ay?
you could also just say whats on you mind ;)
The best thing to do is to not break up over the phone. That's kind of harsh. You should tell this guy in person and talk about it together. For kids...it's not that big of a deal though, because they just play around. But, do whatever you feel is right.
first of all you don't brake up with your boyfriend over the phone it show him what kind of person you really are you do it face to face and you just say what is on your mind nothing mean
Have some respect for the guy and don't hurt him unnecessarily by doing it in a cowardly manner.
It's best to not do it over the phone
but if you have to
then call him and tell him yourself how you feel in a respectful way.
ADVICE-----
Tell him yourself!!!!!
nah.... not over the phone.
that really shows how much the relationship wasn't serious.............
Not ova the phone %26gt;:( its not nice
just tell im sorry but i just think we should be together i just dont like u anymore please dont be mad but we could still be friends. tell him ur reason though
Dont do it over the phone, its just mean... face to face is better.
Tell him that your love has settled down to in like with him.
Don't be scummy. Do it in person.
its mean to do it over the phone lady
Say it in person, or don't say it all.
It's cowardly doing it over the phone/by text/online.
you don't...do it in person, or don't date.
Ouch tough one, the best thing is just to explain how you feel...
uhh idk hun
U HAVE TO DO IT IN PERSON And be straight up
PLEASE HELP ME BEFORE ITS TO LATE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!How do I break up with my boyfriend over the phone?
write him a letter thats the best thing to do its the best way to explain how your feeling and how much you dont want to hurt his feelings and if he doesnt leave you alone change your phone numberHow do I break up with my boyfriend over the phone?
Generally, you don't break up over the phone.
If you can get together and do it in person, that is much more efficient.
Just tell him, look you're a cool guy and all, but I am just not interested in having a relationship with you at this time. We can still talk and be friends if you'd like, but I don't want to be together.
Thank him for the fun times you guys had together (if you had em) and go your seperate ways. Remember to state your reasons for making this decision and just be as kind as possible if you dont want to hurt him.
It shouldnt be a big deal, trust me, two months really isnt much. (Hell I just broke off three years!)
Best of luck :)
don't do it over the phone! thats one of the worst things you can do =/
my suggestion is you just say ';I don't feel the same way anymore, ive changed. I have no idea what happened, i just don't feel that way towards you anymore.'; but itd be better to say to his face. gotta give him that much ay?
you could also just say whats on you mind ;)
The best thing to do is to not break up over the phone. That's kind of harsh. You should tell this guy in person and talk about it together. For kids...it's not that big of a deal though, because they just play around. But, do whatever you feel is right.
first of all you don't brake up with your boyfriend over the phone it show him what kind of person you really are you do it face to face and you just say what is on your mind nothing mean
Have some respect for the guy and don't hurt him unnecessarily by doing it in a cowardly manner.
It's best to not do it over the phone
but if you have to
then call him and tell him yourself how you feel in a respectful way.
ADVICE-----
Tell him yourself!!!!!
nah.... not over the phone.
that really shows how much the relationship wasn't serious.............
Not ova the phone %26gt;:( its not nice
just tell im sorry but i just think we should be together i just dont like u anymore please dont be mad but we could still be friends. tell him ur reason though
Dont do it over the phone, its just mean... face to face is better.
Tell him that your love has settled down to in like with him.
Don't be scummy. Do it in person.
its mean to do it over the phone lady
Say it in person, or don't say it all.
It's cowardly doing it over the phone/by text/online.
you don't...do it in person, or don't date.
Ouch tough one, the best thing is just to explain how you feel...
uhh idk hun
U HAVE TO DO IT IN PERSON And be straight up
'Friend' trying to break up boyfriend and I?
This girl, who used to be my best friend was pissed when my boyfriend and I got together because she claimed to be in love with him. It鈥檚 been over 4 months since then and she keeps dropping comments to him about how they should be together and how he and I will never work out. But she鈥檚 all smiley and friendly to me and I wonder how she can even look me in the face anymore knowing what she鈥檚 been doing behind my back. It鈥檚 been difficult because the two of them are friends as well. I don鈥檛 know what to do, but I do know I can鈥檛 forgive her. Help?'Friend' trying to break up boyfriend and I?
Sounds like this old friend is jealous of you going out with this guy.
I think I've seen this kind of friendship before...remember Betty and Veronica ? Veronica was always friends with Betty...as long as Betty didn't have something or someone she wanted. Since her Dad was well off, well, she usually got everything she wanted. Could this friend/past friend be like this as well? Does she usually get everything she sets her eyes on. Seriously it's like you're Betty and she's Veronica?? Of course only you can answer this.
My advice is that you, yes you, BE CONFIDENT. Time to assert yourself and have two little talks. First with your Veronica friend. Let her know that YOU are the one going out with this Archie guy. If she doesn't like it...tuff. Explain very politely that this is just the way it is. Try not to be emotional about it. I'm serious. You have you're feelings to think about, she'll deal with hers. If you are confident (without being a *****) she'll just have to understand.
Second talk should be to this Archie guy. Express your feelings to him. But for your own sake, be confident. This way, he will be more likely to listen. If you really like him, then say so. I really like you. I like our relationship. Unfortunately there is someone in the way of our relationship...her name is Veronica... (sorry couldn't help the name thing).
Try and never say the word YOU when you are trying to make a point. S'pecially to a guy. Men or guys (young Archie's) see a finger pointing directly at them when you say YOU. Get it?
They will automatically defend themselves and not hear what you are trying to say.
So, this is yourself that you need to talk about. Your feelings. How you see things.
Example... I really like you, I like our relationship, I like the way you ..blah, blah (hey, he's not my guy, I'm been married for almost 20 years, lol) I'm having a great time. I feel that Veronica is in the way. I don't like it.
There's not much you can do about her feelings whether you want to or not. She must figure those out for herself.
Good luck, and if he doesn't except your talk (then he just wasn't worth it and maybe he's better suited for someone else,( even unfortunately for you, maybe this Veronica chick)
Sorry, love or like stinks sometimes, but you'll be better off for later on.'Friend' trying to break up boyfriend and I?
Confront her alone some day and tell her. She shouldn't be dropping hints that she and him should be together when she's your ';friend';. She should be happy for you, not trying to break you guys up. And she sounds a little stuck- up, looking you in the face and smiling when she's doing all this behind your back. Talk to her, and tell her exactly how you feel.
I was in that situation my bf ended up leaving me for her. He took a part in it too. If he decides to leave you for her then so be it. THeir will be others. Oh did you know she was in love with him if you did your gonna get karma. She's hurt talk to her. If that doesn't work then she's not worthy of being called yoru friend and just ignore her don't pay too much attention to her.
Yeah I would definitely call her out on this. She might not even know its wrong (Some people just dont know right or wrong). And that is definitely wrong and she definitely needs to hear that from you.
Call her out and see what happens because whatever does happen friends dont do stuff like that.
Talk to your boyfriend about this, and this is not a true friend sorry to say this but friends don't do that.
you need to call her out one it because shes not a good friend if shes trying to take your boyfriend.
Ok I can relate I know what you are going through and it is hard to decide what to do but when I was in this situation I just walked up to her and started asking her why she doesn't want us to be together and that I understood that she liked him but she just wasn't being a true friend to me and that was not right no matter what and that she needed to back off and if she was a true friend she would respect me and my boyfriend to be together and that would be the end of the discussion and then if she continued we wouldn't be friends. So that is what you need to tell your 'friend' because what she is doing is not fair to you.
Sounds like this old friend is jealous of you going out with this guy.
I think I've seen this kind of friendship before...remember Betty and Veronica ? Veronica was always friends with Betty...as long as Betty didn't have something or someone she wanted. Since her Dad was well off, well, she usually got everything she wanted. Could this friend/past friend be like this as well? Does she usually get everything she sets her eyes on. Seriously it's like you're Betty and she's Veronica?? Of course only you can answer this.
My advice is that you, yes you, BE CONFIDENT. Time to assert yourself and have two little talks. First with your Veronica friend. Let her know that YOU are the one going out with this Archie guy. If she doesn't like it...tuff. Explain very politely that this is just the way it is. Try not to be emotional about it. I'm serious. You have you're feelings to think about, she'll deal with hers. If you are confident (without being a *****) she'll just have to understand.
Second talk should be to this Archie guy. Express your feelings to him. But for your own sake, be confident. This way, he will be more likely to listen. If you really like him, then say so. I really like you. I like our relationship. Unfortunately there is someone in the way of our relationship...her name is Veronica... (sorry couldn't help the name thing).
Try and never say the word YOU when you are trying to make a point. S'pecially to a guy. Men or guys (young Archie's) see a finger pointing directly at them when you say YOU. Get it?
They will automatically defend themselves and not hear what you are trying to say.
So, this is yourself that you need to talk about. Your feelings. How you see things.
Example... I really like you, I like our relationship, I like the way you ..blah, blah (hey, he's not my guy, I'm been married for almost 20 years, lol) I'm having a great time. I feel that Veronica is in the way. I don't like it.
There's not much you can do about her feelings whether you want to or not. She must figure those out for herself.
Good luck, and if he doesn't except your talk (then he just wasn't worth it and maybe he's better suited for someone else,( even unfortunately for you, maybe this Veronica chick)
Sorry, love or like stinks sometimes, but you'll be better off for later on.'Friend' trying to break up boyfriend and I?
Confront her alone some day and tell her. She shouldn't be dropping hints that she and him should be together when she's your ';friend';. She should be happy for you, not trying to break you guys up. And she sounds a little stuck- up, looking you in the face and smiling when she's doing all this behind your back. Talk to her, and tell her exactly how you feel.
I was in that situation my bf ended up leaving me for her. He took a part in it too. If he decides to leave you for her then so be it. THeir will be others. Oh did you know she was in love with him if you did your gonna get karma. She's hurt talk to her. If that doesn't work then she's not worthy of being called yoru friend and just ignore her don't pay too much attention to her.
Yeah I would definitely call her out on this. She might not even know its wrong (Some people just dont know right or wrong). And that is definitely wrong and she definitely needs to hear that from you.
Call her out and see what happens because whatever does happen friends dont do stuff like that.
Talk to your boyfriend about this, and this is not a true friend sorry to say this but friends don't do that.
you need to call her out one it because shes not a good friend if shes trying to take your boyfriend.
Ok I can relate I know what you are going through and it is hard to decide what to do but when I was in this situation I just walked up to her and started asking her why she doesn't want us to be together and that I understood that she liked him but she just wasn't being a true friend to me and that was not right no matter what and that she needed to back off and if she was a true friend she would respect me and my boyfriend to be together and that would be the end of the discussion and then if she continued we wouldn't be friends. So that is what you need to tell your 'friend' because what she is doing is not fair to you.
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