How do you break up with my boyfriend?

btw i am 13 years old.....and.......well i just said yes to him cuz i felt bad for him. and i now i want to break up with him. he asked me to go places with me like the movies and stuff and i said that i cant go and its true. how can i break up with him but in a nice way and also he did nothing but nice things to me. i REALLY need your help. thank you sooooooooooooooooooo much if you help. %26lt;3333333333How do you break up with my boyfriend?
oky dont wrry ive been there done that. just tell him ';i was thinking and maybe we should just be friends, i mean your the best and your really nice but it just isnt working out';. or tell him ';im sorry but this really isnt working out maybe its just time we see other people';. dont feel bad your not only helping yourself but your helping him tooGOOD LUCK:D if you need any more help then just email at rbd_freack@yahoo.com or badgurl4life101@myspace.comHow do you break up with my boyfriend?
I hope this is a lesson for the future.


Not to date ppl you don't really like because you just hurt their feelings.





Kinda a shady thing to do.


But just tell him ';i dont really see us going anywhere, i would like for us to remain friends though.';





or ';I think you should start seeing someone else, feelings aren't there anymore';





something along those lines.
well if u want it private keep it private well i mean umm break up whit him in a quit place!

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If I am going to break up my boyfriend, how long before that should I stop sleeping with him?

I can't break up with him right away due to circumstances.If I am going to break up my boyfriend, how long before that should I stop sleeping with him?
Someone should make it legal so girls like you can cut off his weiner and break up with the rest of him. Get over yourself. Break up with him, do him a favor. You're only with him for the sex. Grow up. And you should stop now. Quit leading him to believe you really love HIM, and not just his winky.If I am going to break up my boyfriend, how long before that should I stop sleeping with him?
You should not use him like that. You should break up with him immediately, and not sleep with him immediately.


Don't be a user. Im taking a guess and its either because you want his money, or you have no place else to live.





Seriously, it makes you less of a person. Less of a human being. To be dishonest, and a user of people.
well, don't sleep with someone that you don't care about. have you tried to sit down and talk to him about your concerns about the relationship? cause you never know.. people are willing to change for the person they care about.


if its a situation where you are just done.. you should have stopped sleeping with him the moment you realized that you didn't want to be with him. i wouldn't prolong anything. don't lead someone on. tell him you need to talk. tell him how you feel and that you just don't see you both together in the long run. be nice.
You need to share the circumstances with us before we can give you an honest answer???(just kidding). I think if you are going to break up with him you should start out with stop sleeping with him. That would help ease into the breakup...I guess
Depends why you are breaking up...


If he's mean to you... (Have your bags packed first) Right after having sex... Get up, say ';I'm done with you now';, and then walk out.
YOU'RE A F*CKING SLUT !


GO TO THERIPY ADN AFTER BECOME A NUN YOU HOE!and learn to treat people with respect , seriosuly you are using him. you are soooo cruel.
stop sleeping with him now, and maybe he will start to get the hint. Then you will have something to lead into the break up conversation.


good luck!
you should not be sleeping with him period unless you are ready tomarry if you get pg. so therefore i would say dont' sleep with him just get rid of him and move on
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Wait until you catch him screwing around on you.
right now. You wouldn't want him using you. Break up next time you see him.
Well you could always be nice and give him breakup sex.
uh the moment you decide youre going to break up with him
Let your Conscience be yor guide.
If you're planning on breaking up with him, don't sleep with him now. That's slutty!
Once you get bored with him.
Wow...
now. because right now you are just using him....thats never the way to go.
you're trying to have it both ways and that's not right.












why are you going to lead him on?

How do I break up with my boyfriend?

So my dad doesnt like my new boyfriend AT ALL cause he says I'm to young. Well that means I need to break up with him. How should I do it. Should I text it (thats the least painful), or do it face to face. Please reply!!!!How do I break up with my boyfriend?
I think you do it face to face is less painful, but beware of his reaction, it can start to cry and beg to not end up dating.





good luck beautiful.





kisses.How do I break up with my boyfriend?
text him and say ';i wanna talk 2 u';


and then the next day say it face 2 face in a calming manner.


trust me it will be over b4 u know it
be brave.


face to face.

How can I break up with my disgusting boyfriend with class?

My boyfriend was in a car crash 2 months ago and suffered a serious injury to the face. He broke multiple bones and finally is almost healed. However he was left with a hideous scar across his face. I'm sure all you ladies understand when I say umm no way hosay! How can I break up with him with class!How can I break up with my disgusting boyfriend with class?
Tell him to fcuk off.How can I break up with my disgusting boyfriend with class?
That is so messed up. if your so caught up on looks and not whats on the inside then he dont deserve a trick like you. just tell him straight up your a stuck up hoe who is only about looks and not love,
Just put Pimpy's picture up in your locker. The poor boy will know that he can't compete with a sexy piece of man meat like that.
If you want I can shoot him for you.
Fix him up with a pretty blind girl.
you shallow *****.
There is no rush. Your intention will find the way for you. Just act normal.

How could I break up with my boyfriend of 3 years without hurting him too much?

What is the best way to tell him?How could I break up with my boyfriend of 3 years without hurting him too much?
If you are going to be honest, you will have to tell him why. He deserves that at the very least. If it comes out of left field, he may be devastated. I mean he does love you. When relationships end, the feelings don't and the history can be source of pain or can cause a smile because of good memories. The hardest thing for him will be leaning how to fall out of love with you.





How much he will be hurt depends on the reason. Don't offer to be friends~~it is sort of insulting.


How could I break up with my boyfriend of 3 years without hurting him too much?
Well, there isn't much you can do to make it not hurt. But there are things you can go without saying that wouldn't make it hurt so much. First, don't make it seem like it is his fault, but don't say ';it isn't you, its me'; because everyone knows that ultimately means that it is definitely him. Other than that just be straight with him and im sure he will understand.
its like a band-aid it just need to be done. tell him you think that you are going your separate ways and that as much as you care for him you can't be together if the feelings of love are not strong enough to keep you there. if he tries to reign you back in just say its better for the both of you to move on now and not drag on the situation or feelings.
Dear mr,





You prolong the hurt (which I know you do not want to do) by saying anything besides, ';it's over.';





Here are the rules:





1. Cut the throat with a sharp knife (so to speak). If you don't kill any hopes, you have left some. Words like, ';I am breaking it off. Good luck,'; or if txt messaging, ';I'm breaking up with you. Good luck.';


Short, NO explanations whatsoever.





2. Do NOT answer a call, return a call, look at a txt msg. whatsoever. No return calls to him. NO CONTACT at all!





3. Try to be somewhere else than where he is, for several weeks. I.e., if you have any reason to go on a 2 week vacation, go. If you're a student, avoiding him may be difficult, but do everything possible never to have any eye contact with him and NEVER let him see you alone because he'll try to come talk to you.





After enough time passes and you have not heard from him, it's possible that he will give up and not contact you.





4. NEVER try to be his ';friend.'; He didn't want you as a friend then, and he obviously has ulterior motives in wanting to be your friend now. ';Ex's are Ex's for a reason.';
Impossible. You are just going to have to tell him that things just aren't what they should be between the two of you, and you don't feel it fair for you to continue the relationship with him, knowing that you are not happy any longer.
Be honest. he will understand., i swear by it.





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Ok, just be honest. Do not do the ';I need space'; or ';lets see other people'; thing... Just let him know, that you do not see a future with him and that he's great or whatever.... be honest
after 3 years no matter how you do it it's going to hurt. just be real and let him know whats really up.
Just say it. It's going to hurt no matter what. Just say ';It's not working out, I'm sorry';
First of all why??
after 3 years its going to hurt

How should I break up with my boyfriend?

We've been going out for 2 months now. I know it's not a long time, but my feelings for him aren't the same anymore and I just dont think I'm really ready for a relationship. I see him about once a month. And the next time I'll see him is on his birthday on Dec 31, that day is out of the question. I don't want to lead him on either. The only options I have is wait for January or over the phone. What should I do?How should I break up with my boyfriend?
Stop lying to yourself.





It's not that you ';aren't ready for a relationship';- if some hot movie star asked you out tomorrow, you would say yes!





Also, it's not that your ';feelings for him aren't the same';- the reality is, you simply misjudged your feelings for him in the FIRST place. You dated him before you really got to know him. Yes, you guys might have fought and screwed it up, but most likely, you just didnt know how he would act when u guys were dating.


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What should you do? As a guy, I would like it a LITTLE BIT MORE if the break up was face-to-face, and private, and the girl didnt hate me or try to ruin my life afterwards. as long as its quiet and she doesnt hate me, in all honesty, i really could care less about whether its over the phone or not.





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SOOO. With that fact, AND the fact that ANY guy would hate having an entire month of his life wasted dating a girl who didn't even like him back anymore..... I say dump him now! Do it nicely and cleanly and honestly. Let him know WHY you don't like him anymore, what he did (without sounding too harsh), and tell him you're sorry but u wish him good luck with his next relationship in the future! Tell him u hope it works out, and again that ur sorry.





good luck! this is what a guy would wanna hear in his situation, and again- dont wait a month!!!





best answer plz thx =)How should I break up with my boyfriend?
Since you can't see him, just break it off over the phone. No need to drag this out for two months.





Do it over the phone, and make it quick and then hang up. Don't stay on the line long enough to hear the sob story or anything, because that will just make it harder for the both of you.





Good luck.
well you dont want to do it on his birthday for sure.


its really hard to plan these things but you have to do whats best for you in the end.


i think you can do it over the phone if you hardly see each other at all.


just be really nice about it. you dont want to wait that long just to be with a guy you dont like.


good luck :D
You only see him once a month and youve only been going out 2 months so does that mean youve seen him twice?





Anyway its a tough choice, I would say sooner rather than later is best so that would mean over the phone. Just appologise and tell him how you really didnt want to have to say over the phone but at the same time you didn't want to lead him on for another month.
over the phone is rude


i say Janurary just say look ___(__is his name) im not ready to be in a real relationship say we barely see eachother... etc
Over the phone is better. do not make it too long a call.

How should I break up with my boyfriend?

He's been thinking about dumping me, and I want to beat him to it. I wanna be mean, but he's never done anything bad to me, and I still really like him. What can I possibly say to him?How should I break up with my boyfriend?
Don't break up with him, just let him break up with you. Be nice to him, and find someone new. Don't stoop to those levels; be a good person and move on, instead of being vindictive and mean. You'll find someone else who appreciates you.How should I break up with my boyfriend?
If you want to really rude- call into his favorite radio station and do it on the air! Man, that's totally mean, but that's what you asked for! lol

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How do I break up with my boyfriend again?

I don't want to hurt him but i probably will anyways but how? i started going out with him again yesterday but i realized it was a bug mistake!How do I break up with my boyfriend again?
Tell him that you did this on impulse...and you did not think correctly regarding your actions of uncontrollable emotion. I am sure he'll understand, but girlfriend, he is going to be shattered, no matter what way you handle it. But if you keep it a huge secret for any longer, he is gonna think something is seriously odd with you by bottling up your true emotions. Why be together if you don't feel or want to be together? Something WAS there, but its NOT anymore and will remain that way.How do I break up with my boyfriend again?
Be honest as not being honest will hurt him more as he will have all the what if's going through his head.
just be honest with him...the longer you leave it or stretch it out the worse it will be........
you just tell him that it's not working but don't expect him to be smiling at you.

How do i break up with my boyfriend/girlfriend?

i need to break up with him because he has been causing me alot of problems. And he will not bone me anymore!!!!!How do i break up with my boyfriend/girlfriend?
1 million ways...


i suggest Just telling him its not going to work or saying your attracted to someone else!


Or make him break up with you.How do i break up with my boyfriend/girlfriend?
AHAHAAH, ok now that thats over, tell him get the f*** in me or get the f*** out of my life, bye now :D

How do i get my best friend to break up with her boyfriend and date me?

my best friend and i have a friendship somewhat like we are dating except the kissing and stuff.


im pretty sure she likes me but how do i stay out of the ';friend zone'; and get her to break up with her boyfriend and get with me?How do i get my best friend to break up with her boyfriend and date me?
Don't break them up, it will only make matters worse! If your a teenager then realize that these teen relationships only last about 3-8 months, typically! So just wait until then and make your move.How do i get my best friend to break up with her boyfriend and date me?
Honestly, i'd give that time. If you do this right away, you could loose your friendship. Also, putting her in that position could make her uncomfortable. I would just hint that you'd like to be a bit more than friends and yes, it is hard to watch someone you love, love someone else, but you may have to go through that till they break up. If they do break up, make sure youre there to catch her !

How to break up with my cheating boyfriend?

My boyfriend has been cheating on me for a while now with another girl and we just found out. Me and the other girl want to leave him speechless. What's a good plan to break up with him?How to break up with my cheating boyfriend?
Drop him don't call don't return callsHow to break up with my cheating boyfriend?
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Here's my 2 cents;





Meet her for coffee, and have him coming to meet you at the same place. When he gets there, say ';Oh hey, I just bumped into my friend here, we know each other (through a friend of a friend/through work/we go to the same gym, whatever, as long as it's plausible). Downplay the fact that you both know, watch him twist and squirm as he tries to weasel out of it. Then, go off with him and do something, let him think that he's gotten away with it, end your date as you normally would.





Then let him stew for a few days, make it like everything is normal. Then the next time you see him, make it in private, and have the other girl surprise him there. That way you can both scream at him and kick him to the curb at the same time, and he has been weakened by a few days of psychological torment.
Just go up to him and tell him to keep him penis in his pants and to start thinking about other peoples feelings.


Maybe you could get his picture on a piece of paper and put some writing on it and write down how much of a cheating a$$ he is and stick the posters around school =]


personally I would not do it but if you really are wanting to avenge him do it =]
Give him a piece of your mind, girl friend!


But cut out the cussing part :P


Tell him that you know that he is cheating and that it's over.


1. Don't do it over the phone.


2. Don't get someone to do it for you.


And 3. Say that you don't want to be friends, if he really broke your heart.





P.S: You're totally too good for him anyway :3





Best Wishes,


- Sweetie %26lt;3.
i think if u had been serious and he dumped u as well as other gal also u shud never leave this guys unpunished u shud teach him a lesson how cna u guys afford to just leav eguys like that .





a wonderful plan ahead





tell the other gal to call him and apologise and say that pls come to my place or may b u call him up and say i m sorry and call at ur place have sex with him and than silently make a movie of it and blackmail him dat u wills how it to ur parents for some moeny or neeling down for hours or whatever punihment u feel like doing .or else lie him that u r pregnant and u need to kepe this baby or else u will go to his parents





mind it guys can do anything for their parents and reputation





or be a frnd ( a cheater friend liek him)





throw a party one day





and insult him badly after boosing it wud be the most embarassing moment for him





or also u can put a blaim on him taht he tried raping u this lesson he wont ever forget go to police by syaing he did a rape attmept on u .








hope u have fun as well as a lesson to teach and a lesson to learn
kick him in the balls back to back.


that'll leave him speechless, or at least crying.


oh god, i just imagined myself as you, and i have no idea how you're containing yourself, i would have gone berzerk and set his car on fire or beat him with a baseball bat!! I hate cheaters! I'm so serious when i say his life would be in danger if i was his girlfriend.
Simple one of you set up a date with him and have either the other one or both of you show up. Proceed to give him a bunch of **** and then simultaneously say ';It's done, you cheating bastard'; and walk away.


Might sound a tad cruel, but I hate people who cheat. Don't be in a relationship if you can't be loyal.
Gang up on him with the other girl and beat him up in an ally. XD Teasing! But Go Girl! You rock for getting revenge and for not immediately turning on the other girl like she's the enemy and not the do*chbag that's been two-timing you! Seriously,you're awesome! :D
I guess.. send him an email.. delete him.. don't pick up.. give back everything in a box (maybe let a friend send it)..





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you'll probably think I'm a bad person if you decide to read my question, but please have the benefit of the doubt, I'm not a bad person...


with that being said, maybe your boyfriend is not either... evaluate everything first
You should arrange to go to his house at a certain time and have the other one ';surprise him'; by showing up, or you could pull a prank on him and leave your initials somewhere or something like that.
Once you caught them in the act, kiss your boyfriend and say, ';Bye honey. I hope you won't regret this. And by the way, your new girlfriend sure looks like your yaya. :))'; Show your BF that you are strong and you can live with or without him. Okay? :D
Take him out act like you don't know then at the end of the night kick him in the balls and tell him your done have the other girl walk out just right before you do it.
cheating nw are days is dangerous due 2 the prevailing of this disease (AIDS) dump him by asking him out %26amp; the other girl should just appear on that place %26amp; embarrass him
Just go straight up to him and tell him the truth. He should know it's coming. Hope this helps!





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tell him you've sort things out with him and that you know what he's been up to and tell him to never call you again and hang up and never answer forever. that works!! ignorance is bliss isn't it??
Just break up with him. Why waste your energy with a plan to get even? I understand you are hurt, risking your self respect is not worth it.
i think you should tell him that you know he's cheating on you with another girl and just break up with him
Sleep with him and when your done say ';you suck, it's over. You don't know how to satisfy me. Let me call your best friend he's much better and last longer';.
Your best move is to just leave. Forget about trying get back at him, you need to get out of this relationship fast. Don't waste your time with him. The best way to get over him? A new man!
you go with another boy friend in his front
just tell him that your relationship with him is over. You dont want a boy whose cheating you...right?
seduce his dad


that would leave him speechless.


or maybe better his mom...........
call me up and we'll think of something =)

Fellas!: How can I sanely break up with my boyfriend?

I want to break up for various reasons. When, where, and most importantly, how? I want to be very mature about this and just...let him go gently. :)





Any tips?Fellas!: How can I sanely break up with my boyfriend?
ok first you tape him a sweet video saying how much you love and care about him,then make him some brownies, but the brownies have a little twist to them (i'll get to that later) MAKE SURE HE EATS THE BROWNIES BEFORE HE WATCHES THE VIDEO!!! then half way through the video it will go to a scene with you ******* his best friend, then it shows his best friend cumming in the brownie batter.


good luckFellas!: How can I sanely break up with my boyfriend?
Let the relationship fade...SLOWLY. I think that's the best solution.





first, stop being all sweet to him. Stop asking him how's he's doing like every time. and no, DON'T CUT all the connections. you can talk to him if he greets you first. But keep yourself busy.





and when the magic is gone for the BOTH of you, go break up with him.





-first, don't just tell him you're breaking up with him. Tell him first how happy you were BEFORE, tell him that it's not working anymore and that's it.
just tell him that ';my heart is not in it any more'; i hope im not hurting you, but i have to do whats right for me! please try to understand what im telling you, and the reason im giving it to you like this is because i respect you and dont want to lead you on.... but like i said my hearts just not innit anymore and i need to be on my own for a bit.....................................鈥?then lose contact with him because if you continue to see him and speak to him ont he phone and stuff youll just end up going in circles, have a couple of weeks to yourself and then ITS PAAARTY TIIIME!!!!!!
Tell him the truth don't hide it say ur sry and don't say I just want to be friends say something like I'm sry I can't be with u because...
Let him catch you giving his dad a BJ
i'd go with the brownie idea
just wing it. go with ur emotions

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How to break up with my boyfriend without hurting his feelings?

Is it better to do it in person, by phone, by email, by SMS or by facebook?How to break up with my boyfriend without hurting his feelings?
Phone. You can hang up when you're done. If face-to-face, it's hardest.How to break up with my boyfriend without hurting his feelings?
You are going to hurt his feelings. I think you know that but, you can try to minimize the pain. I would do it by phone it's honorable and not so personal. Actually looking the person i the face and breaking up is the worst on both sides I assure you. Try to create a little dialog to go by and reference before hand so there are no awkward silences, don't accuse him of things, don't tell him there's someone else (if there is), and just make it as soft as possible for his sake and your sake.
No matter how you break up with him, if he cares about you than it will hurt his feelings but the more personal it is (in person or even by phone) the more it seems like you care about him to make it a little easier to handle. I had a girl i loved more than anything just stop talking to me after a 1 1/2 year relation ship of course i got the point but it crushed me. i'd say do it in person and just don't drag it out.
Always by person and you may say that '; it is not about you, I am just not feeling comfortable in this relationship anymore'; or I want to date others, or I need to find someone who I am more compatible with. Just don't make the mistake of thinking that you can continue to be friends. It is not realistic and can lead to big problems. Don't allow him to get into arguments.........just let him know you can's see him any more.
In person or by phone, the other methods are all unacceptable.
If he likes you, hurting his feelings is unavoidable. But you can soften the blow by doing it in person. It will make him feel like he was worth the effort. Just be honest with him and give him the reasons why you want to break up. Don't be too harsh and make sure you let him know that there are plenty of other girls out there for him.
In person propably but its the hardest. phone is almost the same and easier (for you)





Some people s ay by phone is easier for the person bieng brokenup with because he doesnot have to hide fellings. You wont see them.
It's always better to do it in person. You're being more respectful that way, but remember that he will probably be hurt no matter what you do to break up with him. If you feel too nervous to do it in person, then call him up and do it. If you break up with him any other way, you'll come off as inconsiderate. Good luck! :)
Really depends on how long you've been dating. Personally I'd say never to do it over facebook regardless of how long you've been dating. By email is ok if it's been 2 months or less. Over phone if longer. In person is ok too, it's much more difficult.


Don't blame him for the breakup. Don't say stuff like ';if you would have.....';, or ';I don't feel like you....';. Don't suggest that he could have, or should have done something different to keep you interested. If you do that he'll think that if he starts doing those things then you'll take him back, which I doubt is the case. Just tell him that you enjoyed your time together but you just don't feel the chemistry with him any longer. Good luck

I think this girl and trying to break me and my boyfriend up?

Ok so, there is this girl in my grade. We'll call her 1. Then there is this other girl,2. I thought 2 was starting to like my boyfriend. So I confronted her about it. She said No,I like someone else. So I forgot about it.(2 was also a very close friend of mine)





So about a week ago 1 and 2 started to make fun of me. this is exactly what they said


';(boyfriends name), going to dump her because she got those ugly braces.';





so 2 became two-faced (haha get it?)





And 2 always says ';How come he sticks up for his girlfriend and not me'; or ';they are so mean to each other they shouldn't be going out';..(even though we are just joking around,she doesn't get that)





So here's the creepiest part of all....1 got found my boyfriends ADDRESS somewhere and 1 and 2 looked up where he lives..creepy..So then I told my boyfriend that they did that and he was like wow weirdos. (he doesn't like 1,at all,but 2 was a really good friend)





By they way,I'm NOT going to say anything to 1 or 2,because 1 already hates me with a passion and she could probably beat me up with only one hand.





So should I be concerned or anything?





p.s., I'd rather not even fight with them because I know once me and my boyfriend break up. 1 and 2 will hate each other since they both want him,they will compete with him.





thanks.I think this girl and trying to break me and my boyfriend up?
I know its annoying, but dont worry about it. Take it as a compliment! Those girls are clearly jealous of you, which is why theyre bashing your relationship with your boyfriend. Theyre just trying to make themselves feel better. Besides, you said your boyfriend doesnt even like either of them as a friend, why would he want to date one of them? Your boyfriend likes you - not them.





Alot of girls like boyfriend too. Its annoying, but I try not to get too worked up about it. I cant really blame them anyway - hes an amazing guy and hes hot. And like you, I dont like most of the girls who like him, so it kind of makes me smile that theyre jealous of me and theyre NEVER going to get him.





:)I think this girl and trying to break me and my boyfriend up?
To be quite honest and no offense...


But if quote ';He doesn't like 1, at all, but 2 WAS a really good friend';


Then why are you worried?


He is uninterested in them, so let it be and don't worry.


To much worrying could drive your boyfriend away, he doesn't like them so there isn't anything to be worried about!








Good luck :)
Watch out for them.





They sound creepy. o_O
they sound like there jelous and so immature ignore them but keep an eye out for them

How do i convinc my sister to break up with her boyfriend,who is a very mean guy?

i keep trying to convince her but it's useless.I don't like him.he keeps telling her not to do this and not to do that.what should i do to break them up?How do i convinc my sister to break up with her boyfriend,who is a very mean guy?
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it is very hard.. it is a pain..


just make her to bleave , that she will get a wonder guy in future..better than this one.


take her to new place


divert her mood.. dont allow her to be aloneHow do i convinc my sister to break up with her boyfriend,who is a very mean guy?
Only 2 people are involved in a relationship. You can't break them up. And probably, the more you try to ';convince'; her he's wrong, the closer she'll cling to him.





Time shows all. Just stay out of it. If he's not the right guy, she'll see for herself soon enough.

How to break up with a boyfriend that is ur best friend?

ok so i am going out with my best friend, but i need a way to break up with him, but i still want him to be my best friend? how can i break it to him i would rather be best friends?How to break up with a boyfriend that is ur best friend?
Be Honest but give him some time afterwards. You can't just expect everything to be fine after.; because it obviously isn't for him. If you guys are the best friends you once were he should be able forgive you (hopefully) But from a recent experience I needed to give the boy some time to get over me. Eventually the tension will die down and things will be forgotten and the friendship will be renewed. Just don't do anything you will regret afterwards.How to break up with a boyfriend that is ur best friend?
um honestly.


i dont think he will be your best friend after you guys break up.


you might be friends but you dont be close friends straight away.


tht happened to my friends they were so close... went out.. broke up...didnt talk for MONTHS... and now they are slowly talking to each other again.


so i guess time fixes everything.


when you breake it off with him, dont expect you guys will be friends straight away it might take time for him because hes getting his heart broken. be honest with him.
Make that clear to him.Just tell him how you feel about the relationship, but how you value his friendship(and that you arent just saying that to be nice).Make that clear.
If he was ur ';best friend'; u wouldn't. U would marry him if he was ur ';best friend,'; he obviously doesn't mean much to u anymore so just break up w/ him so he can go find someone good!

How do i break up with my boyfriend after we just got back together?

I just broke up with him yesterday n today we got back together because I thought it was the right thing to do but now i realized i did NOT want to get back together..please help!How do i break up with my boyfriend after we just got back together?
Just like the first time you dumped him...





OMFG I'm such a ******* genius sometimes I think my brain will explode because I feel too intelligent! D: Am I gonna die?!?How do i break up with my boyfriend after we just got back together?
you sound confused.


you should sit down and talk to him


and tell him. you are confused and


need sometime to think. and you're sorry


for the craziness. Do it in person.


and simple, Say you're so sorry


but you can't be in a realationship with him right now


you're too confused and need space.





Best of luck~hope i helped~Sydney (:
Srrry thats stupid you take him bak and now you want to thro him away agian. well i would talk to him tell him how you feel. Dont stay in a relationship if you dont want too.

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How do I tell my boyfriend that I want us to take a break from each other?

what is the right way,place and time to tell him that I want a time-out? I don't want to break-up with him just to take some time away from him to see if what we have is genuine and worth fighting for,because it sure doesn't fee that way right now :-(How do I tell my boyfriend that I want us to take a break from each other?
Maybe tell him that you've got a lot on your plate and you are just really confused at the current time and you need some time to think. If he really loves you and you are meant to be he will be upset but respect your decision. Just make sure you make it clear that you don't want to break up with him... Tell him the good and bad points about him and what he is doing to make you feel not as close. Make sure you even it out with good things too. I did this with my boyfriend a few months ago but in the same night we thought 'what the hell are we doing, we are so in love' it made us appreciate what we had more.... Maybe this will happen for you guys.


I hope things go ok =)


xHow do I tell my boyfriend that I want us to take a break from each other?
well talk to him,tell him all nice and slow,and tell him why you wanna do this and how it will benifietrelationship with him and you =D
I don't think you should do that it'll make it worse, he'll despise you for it, if he does stay with you through it and he's the type of person to keep things in it'll create even more tension inside his mind, his first initial thought is that you wanna sleep with other people

Should I break up with my boyfriend of four years?

My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost 4 years, we are both 18 now. I used to think i loved him and wanted to be with him forever, and I have told him that I want to marry him someday and he feels the same way, but now I think that I am falling out of love with him. When we have had arguments before I have wanted to break up once or twice, but he always freaks out and somehow convinces me to stay with him..how do I break up with him without totally crushing him?Should I break up with my boyfriend of four years?
You don't. Live your life for you; not for others.





Naturally you are falling out of love with. At age 14 and 15, most guys are not interested in girls, so he was the best available. Now that the guys are older and interested in girls, you have much better choices. Don't blow it by settling for some guy that you are familiar with when, if you take time to look, you can do much better.Should I break up with my boyfriend of four years?
you knoww hat. yu ca'nt feel sorry for him and stay with him i did this and married a man needless to say after 14 years and 4 kids i was already done with him and divorced. yu could do the same thing. i suggestt o you get rid of him and move on now its hard butyou can get over it its like used to situation and that is what hes following but a real realtionship is getting along and the time goes by so fast you can hardly hang onto it. its not with him and you know it.
after 4 years, you're not going to crush him, it'll be like an ant under the magnifying glass. If you're 18, assuming you're going, you should probably give college a chance via single life. Worst comes to worst, ask him how he feels about that. Seems to me you're too young to ';think'; you're in love with each other. Give it time b4 committing to anything so conclusive if you're not sure.





Bottom line, only you can decide
There will not be a way that this will not hurt him. However, if he does really love you he will want the very best for you, and want to allow you to live the life you choose. I had a girl friend like this for 4 years in high school. It hurt bad when she broke up with me. Still I respected her choice, I could not stop loving her for a very long time. But I did find someone who was really much better for me, so will he and so will you. You won't forget each other, not really, but try to stay friends for sure, and friendships are very dear things as the years go by. There are many ways to express love.
he really loves you. but if you don't love him back, you should do it nicely.


I dont know exactly what to say but try including that you care for him and will still be there for him as a friend. idk
having been in the relationship for so long there really is no way to end it without breakingg a heart


all you can do is be honest and sincere in what you say to him


there is no easy way to break up with someone
Trust me he will move on, just end it or you will end up like I did. I was in your situation except I didnt leave. 2 daughters and 11 yrs later I finally ended it...You have nothing holding you back so dont doubt your feeling. Trust your gut and leave him before its to late :)
ok it sounds like either way this is going to end up bad, you can't not crush him, if you break up with him, you'll crush him

I really want to break up with my boyfriend?

i really really want to break up with my boyfriend, i just dont like him anymore and hes always busy with soccer and never answers his texts or calls. And he called last minute on my bday that he couldnt come cause he had soccer. What should i do to break up with him what should i say and how should i say it over phone or in person?I really want to break up with my boyfriend?
Umm he missed your birthday party last minute for soccer?? Jerk... Tell him you feel like a you're not a priority, and you don't like him like that anymore. Do it in person, here's what you might want to try to say:





';(Name), you're a great guy, but I think we need to.... break up. I feel like you're always busy, and you never make time for me. I mean, you missed my birthday party, you never answer me when I text or call you, and I don't feel that way about you anymore. I'm sorry, but it's over.';





That's what I would tell him. Hope it works! Email me on how it goes?? :-)I really want to break up with my boyfriend?
hi there (:





okay well, i think the best thing would be for you to talk to him in person. it's better that way because then that shows you aren't scared. if you did it over the phone or through text that just tells him and possibly future boyfriends that you aren't ready for commitment. the way you should end it, if you REALLY, TRUELY want it to end is just let him know that you two are going separate ways, that you want one thing and he obviously wants another. you'd like a boyfriend who would be there for you and skip a soccer practice for your birthday or whatever is going on. you're sorry for the way it has to end and that you will [maybe] remember what you two had. and that, even possibly, you two can stay friends.





good luck, i hope i helped.
say it over the phone. or whatever you feel more comfortable with. just send him a text that says we need to talk so he knows that your serious and tell him what you just wrote. that it seems like he is too busy for a relationship, it hurts your feelings that he never thinks to call or txt you back and you don't want ot deal with it anymore.
Always break up in person.People that do it over the phone are wienies.Just be honest and explain that you need someone you can count on.Someone with more time for you.He might be relieved so he can think about soccer all the time.
first of all, unless youre a coward, youd do it in person.


secondly, just be honest and be like ';look, i need attention all the time and since your world doesnt revolve around me, i need to find someone thatll pay attention to me 24/7';
Tell him in person. Tell him that you don't feel important in his life anymore and you don't think it's fair that he's stringing you along.
just tell him that it is obvious that he does not


have time for everything in his life right now


and you will gracefully step out to give you


this time it is not fair for you or me to be


second string
In person, tell him its not working for you. Tell him you feel lonely and ignored if you do. And let him know he shoulda been there more.
wow thats kinda shallow but just tell him straight up that u dont like the distance between you two due to soccer and him always being busy it messed up but i mean if your over it then why are you still with him
say it in person. its much better, it may be hard but dont be afaid and do it over the phone.
tell him ';sorry its just not working out';


dont tell him your lonely cause he might say ';i'll try harder'; if you dont like him anyways then you dont want him to


hope that helps
Just tell him in person. Explain it to him and be done with it.
DUMP HIS ***! xD if he really liked yu then he would be calling you... giving you flowers for your birthday at least or somethin!
say it in person, so its official.. tell him how yu feel nd why.
be creative, write ';its over sucker!'; on his soccer jersey.





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